I'm Slightly Conflicted

Paladin2903 · 2017-09-26T03:42:13+00:00

Young man, you’re still brainwashed by the blue pill world. You’ve got to get this legacy and “I’m gonna be a disappointment because I’m not passing on my name” shit out of your mind.

There are hundreds of thousands, if not millions of people that all carry the same last name as you. For all we know, you might be slightly related to every single one of them.

Stop worrying about a last name. It means absolutely fuck all. Moreover, stop worrying about things that will be on this Earth when you’re dead. I mean, you’ll be dead. It does *NOT *matter.

Enjoy the here and now. That’s all we have. Try to have a little fun with this thing called Earth. Hope this helps.

2QuietDude · 2017-09-26T02:53:35+00:00

I am the last male of my family bloodline.

Really? Which "family bloodline" would that be?

Your father's? ...which is only 1/2 of your genetic makeup. Or your mother's which is the other 1/2.

Did you mean your father's father's (your grandfather's)?? ...which is only 1/4 of your genetic makeup; or maybe his father's father's (your *great**grandfather's) ...which is only 1/8 of your genetic makeup... perhaps your GREAT great grandfather's which... (\)

-- You starting to get the point? Unless your family has been practicing incest (and more specifically full-brother-sister incest ala "Game of Thrones") then there really ISN'T a single "bloodline" but rather a sort of "mutt-like mixture" of multiple different bloodlines (How many? Well how far you gonna go back?)

-- And the same will be inherently true toward the future as well: any son you might have would only have 1/2 of your genetic mixture (so only 1/4 of your father's genes, 1/8 of your grandfather's genes, and 1/16th of your great-grandfather's genes).

Besides, who's fault is it that you are the SOLE male heir of your generation... much less your "family name" ? What would they have done (or would they do) if you died in some accident before fathering a SON of your own?

-- As for passing down the "family name" -- that's really a different matter entirely -- talk to Julius Caesar about that. (Or indeed Cristiao Ronaldo... if the "family" truly wants you to have a "son/heir" with the primary purpose being to "continue the family name/line," then will they accept & help pay for you to use a "surrogate"? If not, why not? Far less "risk" with that, and in the end probably less total cost to you/the family as well.)

(*) Also, not to be TOO crude about it, but women have been cheating on (and cuckolding) their husbands since time began. Go back enough generations, and there's actually a fairly HIGH statistical possibility that at least one of your ancestral "grandfathers" actually WASN'T the real biological/genetic "father" of the child he (mistakenly) believed to be his "son."

Lerenarddebleu · 2017-09-26T02:22:23+00:00

Well my advice is legacy should be based on individualism not on the accomplishments in your ancestors, if you take pride in your ancestors perfectly fine. Hell I take pride in mine, but in terms of legacy it should be for yourself, not please other people. Then again I come from a family that was very toxic and tried to keep me "traditional". Family to me is the people that are there for you through the worst. In the end though MGTOW is all about making your own choices, so final decision is all yours as how it should be.

Vishapstein · 2017-09-26T03:30:30+00:00

Focus on your education/health/finances for the next 10-15 years. When you're in your mid 30s, then you should be able to afford a surrogate mother to produce a child for you. It might cost you $60-$75k, but it's cheaper than risking 50/50 of your assets/child support/alimony with a wife.

mrp_1844 · 2017-09-26T02:22:40+00:00

Just tell them you have not met the right girl yet.

Over time as this grows they will learn about this lifestyle from others.

MatthewsIsGod · 2017-09-26T06:07:10+00:00

Who gives a fuck about the family name. Don't sacrifice your freedom because of that. Once you're dead it won't matter. Nothing will matter.

Setari · 2017-09-26T14:36:09+00:00

My mom wanted me to get married. I got engaged.

Worst decision of my life. We never got married and split up way later. It didn't feel like anything changed because... it didn't. It's just a way to get you to dump a bunch of money on a woman for a wedding. Spend that shit elsewhere.

You owe nobody anything, dude. Your life is your life, live it how you wanna. Get married? Go ahead, nobody's stopping you. Don't get married? Cool, everyone else can fuck off while you're successfully studying what you want to study or do whatever with your life.

Have fun and live life while you can, that's the most important thing.

exit-stage-right2 · 2017-09-26T05:34:37+00:00

Tell your family that they can damn well pay for the costs of it. They can subsidize for child rearing and all the shit a wife wants to waste money on etc. Fuck, it is. our parents fault everything is fucked in gender relations and in the state of jobs. If they want the family name continued so bad, they can fucking finance it. And don't get a promise shit, get them to give you a couple $100k and a payed off house.

Ineedabetternametoo · 2017-09-26T11:25:58+00:00

Legacy? Look at Newton and Tesla. These men have all but allowed most of the things around you to even exist. You can only know what possibilities truly within your mind by freeing it.

Women and illusions of duty to this bs society are it's greatest shackles.

Quicksilver · 2017-09-26T12:46:11+00:00

If your parents give you stress about continuing the family name tell them that they if they REALLY cared about it they should have had more than one boy in case one was gay, killed, sterile, or going to dedicate himself to being remembered for his accomplishments in the world.

2QuietDude · 2017-09-26T02:28:49+00:00

Yea it's weakness. There. Said it.

ZeroBlink · 2017-09-26T11:28:54+00:00

Here's a thought , day after you have a child meteor hits the earth wipes everything on it.
What does it matter?

SharonJSeg · 2017-09-26T11:31:33+00:00

I am "lucky" in the fact that, I have a brother who has a wife and children. But, would I be inclined to get married and have children if I was an only child - No.

By the way, you can, at some point consider adopting an older child if you do wish to take care of another person minus the diaper change and all that early stuff, and they can take on your name and legacy. maybe raise a bunch of new generation MGTOWS yourself, no sperm needed hehe

Spacecowboy32 · 2017-09-26T20:54:42+00:00

I was like you once, be careful about living up to your families expectations, no one has to deal and live with those expectations except for you.

Title	I'm Slightly Conflicted
Author	ZapperDubs
Upvotes	9
Comments	18
Date	September 26, 2017 2:17 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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Really? Which "family bloodline" would that be?