Is having a girlfriend bad?

strongandhappy · 2019-10-27T23:48:04+00:00

Keep reading up on red pill, protect yourself, and enjoy the ride while you can.

[deleted] · 2019-10-27T23:50:08+00:00

and I make sure we go 50/50 on bills, I get regular sex whenever I ask and whatever I say is law in the relationship

She is either:

A) A guy

or B) Gently reeling you in since your clearly hooked on her fishing line (her cunt).

Give it a few weeks or months and she will switch gradually to owning you and you wont notice, you'll just be her slave. It is not in the nature of a woman to give sex for free to a man she is in a relationship with. To clarify, CHADS get it for free because SHE wants sex and CHAD has nothing else she wants. YOU have lots she wants and she plans to get it.

EDIT: IF this is what you want, then more power to you

DangZagnut · 2019-10-27T23:53:42+00:00

Whatever works for you, as long as you’re happy.

peguy2000 · 2019-10-27T23:51:45+00:00

Had the same, she got bored after 2 years and ghosted me without giving me a reason.

Things might seem ok for now but after shes bored shell seek someone else

kriskros18 · 2019-10-27T23:56:03+00:00

Not at all, as long as your individual goals can co-exist in a respectful environment. For this, you must set boundaries and train yourself to think logically before any decision(thus shutting off love blinders). RP/MGTOW will guide you in this process.

PrinceRaj53 · 2019-10-28T00:51:05+00:00

Having a girlfriend is not bad.

You know what's worse and dumb? Giving a woman the status/privilege of being your girlfriend without her earning that status/privilege first. THAT is bad, and dumb.

Now, lets come to your "description" about "look at how good my gf is". Well, the thing you call gf is what we call a plate . If I were you, I would have called her a plate. At best she is there to fulfill my sexual needs and to entertain me sexually. That does not mean I will give her the status of "gf" just bcoz I am getting some temporary benefits from her, because those benefits are temporary , and are just part of the false advertising to convince me that "this product/moist hole is genuine, so get it today, limited time offer!!!".

My opinion : demote her to a plate, keep her around to entertain yourself, and dump her when things become too "oneitis" kind for you to handle. Don't get attached, dont do anything stupid, don't give commitment. You will be fine.

CastandRefused · 2019-10-28T00:08:12+00:00

Do what you want, if you understand women though I don't see why you'd want a relationship. Some guys are monk, others pump and dump, relationships and being married don't really fly around here for most though.

hrm0894 · 2019-10-28T00:38:11+00:00

All that stops once you get married. Don't fall for it.

donkeypunchapussy · 2019-10-27T23:56:14+00:00

Get laid as often as you can from as many as you can, just dont fall into the pu$$y trap.

yawp1 · 2019-10-27T23:56:18+00:00

Two months?

Keep reading here. Woman will blow up a relationship after two months, two years, two decades. They just have to become unhaaaaapy. And, oh look over there! Chad!!!

[deleted] · 2019-10-28T00:17:36+00:00

Make sure you have a way out of it at any time should things turn sour. Other than that, do what you like.

I personally don't date because last time I did, I felt like I was wasting big time more than I was wasting cash.

~~then I found r/waifuism out, which gave me actual satisfaction with what I was doing~~

Wardedbilledanteater · 2019-10-28T01:10:50+00:00

Sounds like a good deal. I would recommend more one night stand and hook ups as opposed to a relationship. It sounds like your happy. Just be cautious. In every situation one must use caution.

MrMagtow · 2019-10-28T02:46:29+00:00

2 months? You're still in the honeymoon phase kid.

In another month, you'll actually begin to start learning about each other. Most people break up at 3mo, 6mo, 9mo, 12mo, 2 years, 3, 5, 10 intervals for different reasons (but specific based on the time period).

ihnrva · 2019-10-28T03:30:13+00:00

Have fun, use protection, don't move her in with you. Don't get married, and enjoy your turn. It's all you can do man.

Nagamagi · 2019-10-28T03:33:56+00:00

Mgtow is mostly about protecting yourself from the shitstorm that happens when a relationship fails. Especially when the legal system is unfair towards men.

So proceed with caution.

MGTOWrath · 2019-10-28T03:42:52+00:00

Just don't commit to the bitch. Biggest mistake you'll ever make in your life.

BlackPillPusher · 2019-10-28T05:43:49+00:00

You're still in a honeymoon stage, you're both full of hormones that compel both of you to breed, it's only natural, however at some point the high gonna start fading and you'll start noticing a gradual change in her behavior, more nagging, more accusation and shaming, more demands, that kinda thing, it's inevitable.

KazuyaAmon · 2019-10-28T15:11:27+00:00

is putting your hand inside a moving blender safe? youre good for now i guess but the wahmens psyche is a strange one tread carefully

Yashugan00 · 2019-10-28T15:40:30+00:00

honeymoon phase. next is betafication curve.

a broken in horse gets ridden all day

ValhallaBoundBoy · 2019-10-28T16:43:15+00:00

It always starts out as sex whenever you want it. Women don't tend to understand their own sexuality. It is fun at first because of this primal urge to feel 'used' and get their partner off. The thrill of that fades quickly and then they are left feeling bored by sex. Why? Because they never took the time to really explore their sexuality. They barely know themselves physically, unsure on what gets them off, yet get mad that men can't figure it out either. Then there is the psychological side. Most settle for the 'getting used' feeling I described earlier, but don't know what they enjoy beyond that. Men tend to have fetishes or kinks or just 'directions' to go sexually that they enjoy with the same woman over and over and over again. Women just never explore that part of them and then aren't sure how else to get off other than being used by a relatively new man in their life.

So, inevitably, your girl isn't going to keep saying 'yes' anytime you want sex. Also how are you only two months in a relationship and living together? Or by Bills do you mean restaurants?

901735 · 2019-10-27T23:46:09+00:00

Title	Is having a girlfriend bad?
Author	lime881
Upvotes	1
Comments	28
Date	October 27, 2019 11:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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