It must be nice if you're a woman, you just sign up for OkCupid or whatever, you get an instant supply of ego stroking from desperate guys. Out of the 100 guys in your inbox, you can choose the hottest and richest one. Guys sign up and live with a ghost-town inbox. Even after sending messages. That's why I left. You have all these hipster feminists bashing "gender roles" yet in the dating world they impose the same gender role that they claim to dislike. We'll always have to message first. Anyone else have a depressing OKC experience? It's terrible. And then these women expect you to understand text sarcasm from a stranger. "Oh, you don't get sarcasm?" BITCH, I can tell sarcasm in person with no problem. I could easily text anything to you and say I'm being sarcastic when I'm really testing you. Fuck that. I can't text women anymore.