It sucks being the only boy

Ody_ssey · 2020-04-30T05:14:20+00:00

That's why kids raised by single mother turned out to be broken. You are basically living with 3 other children who force you to learn accountability but themselves don't have any. You need a father figure who can play sports, video games with you and take you out.

Your sisters and mother are emasculating you.

backonmyBS · 2020-04-30T06:12:20+00:00

Check out “Coach Red Pill” (Gonzalo Lira) on YouTube.

Being damaged from living mostly in an all girls/single mother household, I know how it feels. The previous commenters are correct, they are emasculating you. Its good that you’re reaching out now when you’re young, because the damage will manifest in very ugly ways when you’re older if not corrected.

This guy changed my life. He made his videos for his now toddler son who he most likely won’t be around to guide through his late 20s, 30s because he’s in his 50s. I want you to watch every single one of them.

Best of wishes young man

Quentinquitin8 · 2020-04-30T05:49:32+00:00

i guess you have a good view of female nature upclose and now you're more redpill aware then most men. Don't pay attention to bitches whining tho. That's what they do most of the time, they've developed that ability over millenia.

mtamez1221 · 2020-04-30T06:58:14+00:00

And I wish I had a younger brother! I’m the oldest with 2 little sisters and everything is fine between us but it’s not the same. We are tribal creatures that need to be around support and strong leadership. That’s why shit is so messed up these days. It’s every man for himself it seems

Alexius_von_Meinong · 2020-04-30T09:48:41+00:00

Been there. I am the youngest of five and the only boy. Moreover, I was raised in a house with my mother and my grandmother. I started out in life with a lot of absurdly unrealistic feminist ideas that fucked my life up for many years. I made lots of mistakes that cost me time, money, and wasted effort. But eventually I saw how stupid I had been. You start out with a forum like this, so compared to me you're way ahead of the game. Merely the fact that you know about MGTOW and are exposed to the ideas here means that you will be saved an enormous amount of time, money, and wasted effort. Count yourself ahead of the game.

As the only boy, the rules will always be different for you. Realize that and accept it. Also as the only boy, no one will understand your interests, motivations, and intentions. Don't allow their incomprehension to distract you from your path in life. Just nod and agree and do what you were going to do anyway. This is advice you often hear in MGTOW circles. Strange thing is, just last week my mom (who is in her eighties now) said to me that this is exactly how I have behaved. I smiled inwardly.

evergreen35 · 2020-04-30T09:43:53+00:00

I feel lucky to have a brother who is also red-pilled. I love my sister very much but she, like most women, is delusional about how shitty other women are. As a man, you will never get true compassion or understanding from a female. Only another Man can truly sympathize with you.

PrestigiousCarpet8 · 2020-04-30T10:26:12+00:00

You'll be out one day, self-sufficient and wealthy. Then they'll start demanding help from you. That's when you just walk away. Living well is the best revenge, especially when dealing with women as your happiness only magnifies their own misery.

TheH1dd3nFear · 2020-04-30T10:56:21+00:00

But at least you don't have a half feminized brother, god that's just as bad. Watch Rollo Tomassi.

WashYourNose · 2020-04-30T12:00:32+00:00

Spend all your free time learning shit in the garage: they will not follow you out there.

TheH1dd3nFear · 2020-04-30T10:58:16+00:00

Fuck that man Dishes suck.

Zilo88 · 2020-04-30T13:39:12+00:00

Focus on you. Get educated, learn skills, hone them, and get a good job. Then get out. As far as you can. Because those parasites are setting you up to support them for life.

bpdloveoflife · 2020-04-30T15:15:36+00:00

Dude, I feel for you. Your only goal should be to become independant and move out of that house asap. Also remember, your sisters will keep trying to brainwash you, especially when you are vulnerable. No matter how much they gaslight you, always remember your own way.

HoldenBalzac · 2020-04-30T20:33:33+00:00

Yes. Been there. Lived through it. Still got the scars. Sixty years ago, my parents divorced when I was 4. Was raised by angry, mentally ill women. A few ideas for you. Women raise their sons to take care of women, not because that's what's good for the son but because that's what's makes life easier for Her. They are being selfish, using you, trying to break you, trying to train you to be a servant. School teachers are the same, they want obedience and conformity. So learn to lie to them, tell the bitches what they want to hear but keep your own counsel. Learn to live without their approval because their approval is a manipulation, like giving a treat to a dog when it does the tricks she's trained it to do. Go do a quick review of how people train dogs and notice how much it resembles what your Mom and sisters are doing to you.

Only women can make babies. Only men can make another man. To stop being a child, to become a man, you'll have to learn it from men. One of the major turning points in growing up is when you realize . . . you don't have to live life doing what Mommy wants, doing what school teachers tell you to do. You can build you own life, you can decide what you want to do, become what you want to be. So observe men, watch them, evaluate. What do you admire and what do you despise? Do a careful self assessment of your own strengths and weaknesses, talents and lacks. Decide what kind of man you want to be. Make your plans to gain strength or experience in something where you're weak now. Set goals and work to achieve them. Make yourself better.

Emotions are mostly a distraction but women live for their emotions. Men focus on reason, logic. Focus on distinguishing what is real from what is false.

aoeAoeAOeAOEAOEEE · 2020-05-01T03:01:16+00:00

Really an unspoken type of literal hell to grow up with women.

jonnytechno · 2020-05-01T12:01:12+00:00

Get Out ASAP

As soon as you can get a job and your own place

aconsent · 2020-05-01T20:17:08+00:00

I wish this internet and reddit and this mgtow sub had existed when I was going through what was a bit worse than your situation (4 sisters).

You will be fine.

TigerVsSerpent · 2020-05-02T14:54:00+00:00

That sounds brutal, but I'm the youngest of a mostly-male family. In a way it's still shitty because you're still treated like the "fool".

The basic truth is that the family unit itself is breaking down in society. I blame this mostly on the loss of religion.

Title	It sucks being the only boy
Author	KingCJMA
Upvotes	68
Comments	20
Date	April 30, 2020 4:51 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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