I've fallen victim

Slaide · 2018-03-31T20:16:41+00:00

You're a simp. Get out. We warn people like you every minutes of what will happen if they simp out. You don't listen and then want advice.

No. You fucked up. You're no victim. Victimization is a female tactic. You fucked up and need to deal with it.

Supernerd97 · 2018-03-31T20:04:59+00:00

Well, it all boils down to one question. Who do you care about more, you or her?

(Psst, the correct answer is “you”.)

gods_bones · 2018-03-31T20:31:01+00:00

Start charging her rent. She'll be cheating on you and moving into some random dude's house in less than a week.

falselyaccusedguy234 · 2018-03-31T20:24:39+00:00

hahahahahaah

breathes

bahahahahahaha

herpderpfeynman · 2018-03-31T20:19:20+00:00

I don't want to ruin her life

You're not chopping her legs off or anything just fucking break up and ghost the bitch. Problem solved.

Do you know how easily women get over breakups? She's probably already over you.

Sol_Install · 2018-03-31T20:26:38+00:00

Tom Leykis has a lesson. "Don't start the cycle of paying." Which you've already fucked up. These women don't want financial responsibility in any capacity. Not only that, they use men as a proxy for everything. To her, it isn't about you, it's about what YOU can do for HER. What does this mean? It means that everything is going to be about her. Anything that impacts you, no matter how important to you, is of no concern to her. Why? Because it's not HER problem. It's yours. When women act like this, it's because you started being selfless. Women punish the selflessness in men by exploiting it. Now you talk about cleaning the apartment by yourself again. Yep, I was like that with my ex. She was a slob.

She's using you for a free ride. Why? Because you're a Nice Guy. You can try to get her to do things around the house and such but she won't listen to you. Why? Because of your past behaviors. The solution?

A)Stand up to her. Call her out on her shit. You are a man. You know what is going on. You know that she wants to put her interests above your own and your own expense. Have her pull her fair amount of weight.

B) DUMB THAT BITCH Cut her loose. You've fucked up. She's not going to take you seriously and she won't pay you back a dime. Either she steps up to the plate or she's gone. The thing about being a man, being a MGTOW, eventually your balls has to drop. Which means you need to do what needs to be done i.e. put yourself first.

I mean reading this shit, you are pathetic. I'm not saying that to be harsh. Many of us on here have humiliated ourselves over women. You're paying for everything down to her phone bill. That is fucking pathetic. Read it again. FUCKING. PATHETIC. I'll give you the advice I've given to men who want relationships:

A)A woman must bring more than her vagina and presence to the relationship.

B) She must not make your life harder. She is to be an asset, not a burden.

C) Treat her like you would an employee your hire. They are to contribute. If they don't, they are gone.

D) Don't do anything for her that she wouldn't do for you. So far, you've done the investment and she's invested nothing.

She's asks for things because you were foolish enough to pay for it all. If anything, I am willing to bet she's with you for the free ride.

Global_MGTOW · 2018-03-31T20:22:04+00:00

Got myself a girl, after 7 months, asked her to move in.

Why would you do this?

2018-03-31T20:24:11+00:00

Fuck her. Tell her to leave and go back to the single life. You already know what she is after so listen to your subconscious not your dick.

sentinel46 · 2018-03-31T20:29:09+00:00

If you make the move to break up with her it must be final. If she manipulates you back into the fold she will most likely get knocked up and then you are fucked. Put away stuff you don't want broke, clear some time so you can oversee her moving out and have a witness there with you while this occurs. You work for CN? That is a pretty good gig in this economy so she will know what she is about to lose. You gotta protect yourself here. Be smart. She has got to go brother. Lots of red flags here.

wickedlystupid · 2018-03-31T20:59:13+00:00

Why would you ruin her life? Are you her father?

There’s nothing you can do but draw the line. You know you’re kind, and you’re aware that she’s taking advantage of your kindness. What else is there to do, then?

Also, this sub is not a relationship help desk. Just go to that other subreddit.

2018-04-01T02:56:10+00:00

Ass fuck her, cum in her throat and ghost her ass. Very simple solution.

Sumo94 · 2018-03-31T20:28:39+00:00

Tell her you have found someone else

MagnusVeritas · 2018-03-31T23:14:46+00:00

1) Stop spending beyond your means. Devise a weekly/monthly budget and determine in advance how much you can afford to allocate to entertainments, if anything at all.

2) Give no thought to whether or not you should end the relationship. She'll make that decision on your behalf. If she has no concern with your debt, she'll ditch you once you constrict your funding of her lifestyle.

You're her betabux Bob. The real question you should be pondering is who's fulfilling the role alphafux Chad.

CasketCadaver · 2018-04-01T01:16:38+00:00

The answer is simple and you know damn well what you have to do. I think you came here hoping somebody would give you a an alternative option but thats not the case. Grab your balls and man up.

captainsaveahoe69 · 2018-04-01T02:22:36+00:00

Stop that NOW

VlogIt · 2018-04-01T06:40:43+00:00

If she ruins your life, do you think she cares?

EuphemisticallyTrue · 2018-03-31T21:28:16+00:00

I made a 5 part series that contains most of the views in MGTOW.

Part 1 of 5: Summary of MGTOW

Part 2 of 5: Information: Social and legal problems

Part 3 of 5: Human Nature: Evolutionary psychology and it's implications

Part 4 of 5: MGTOW Philosophy

Part 5 of 5: Red Pill Rage and Depression to Self-actualization and Contentment

6tfcxdr54eszaw32q1 · 2018-04-01T04:21:53+00:00

Theyre all drug addicts, their drug is money. Would you allow a junkie into your house to live?

Yehoshua_Benaiah · 2018-04-01T05:24:35+00:00

What are you waiting for? Hurry up and get rid of the bitch. She's milking your pockets and leaving you in debt. That should be more than enough to make you want to kick her to the curb. Do it before she completely destroys you. You're already in enough trouble as it is, you don't need to pile on more problems. Get rid of her now!

cashmoney_x · 2018-04-01T05:45:52+00:00

" I don't want to ruin her life"

Until you change the way you think you're fucked. She owns you. A few tears and you will cave.

EDIT: Question: If she was paying for all of you shit and doing all the cleaning would you sit idly by and let it happen?

If not, why does she and what does that say about her (and how she sees you)?

Hellse · 2018-04-01T07:05:17+00:00

Fuck her life. I mean don't go out if your way to, but it's highly unlikely she'll grow out of that attitude and a guarantee it'll extend to bigger things in the future if not. Why is her stupid stand more important than financial responsibility which will follow you for years, for better or worse?

Besides, it's clear she's going to do just fine with ruining her own life with or without you, might as well not be pulled under water with her.

DamnIamHigh_Original · 2018-04-01T00:22:54+00:00

Many here are toxic but with the current climate its hard. Tell her. Tell her you made debt for her standards, tell her she should be thankful and accept the way it is. If she leaves you, good. Less Drama. If she stays, good

Title	I've fallen victim
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	10
Comments	28
Date	March 31, 2018 8:03 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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