Just a question.

gtowerthrowaway · 2019-05-27T10:46:16+00:00

Why would you hate your mom, or any woman for that matter?

Just don't marry them.

2019-05-27T10:48:39+00:00

Who hates women? Just never let one have power over you.

outonadaypass · 2019-05-27T10:45:56+00:00

This has nothing to do with hate, only the understanding of women's nature. I get along with my mother and talk with her frequently.

shitfren · 2019-05-27T10:53:32+00:00

Still have a good relationship with my mom. But in contrast to earlier years i know when she is bullshitting. I know when she tries to shit test or guilt trip me and act accordingly. But i still love her and respect her because she tries to keep this to a minimum and is generally a good hard working person. Knowing about female nature doesn't mean that you have to cut ties to every woman, at least imo.

Itsbbbitch · 2019-05-27T10:54:23+00:00

Non-existent, just the way I like it.

2019-05-27T11:00:38+00:00

You need to hate only people that try to damage you with their bad behavior.

Going your way also means being able to avoid those people, men and women alike.

If your mother is a good person there's no need to hate her because she's a woman. The problem is more about today women.

ValhallaWillCome · 2019-05-27T11:13:22+00:00

I don’t hate my mom, but I would have a bit of respect for her if she could at least try to understand the choices I’ve made over the years. Or in any way take a bit of responsibility for her stupid actions. She does neither but still talks down to me like she owns me. Currently, I try to avoid her whenever I can.

ScottFreeTrees · 2019-05-27T11:13:48+00:00

For myself: My mother was in the military and she showed me the world when I was little. She wanted me to play piano, do well in school and stay away from women. On the other hand, she was adulterous, physically abusive, emotionally unstable and ran two of her husbands into the ground mentally and financially. My father was one of them. He was also in the military, became cold/cruel after the divorce. Never saw him more than once a year during my childhood.

Before MGTOW, I was genuinely afraid of my mother. She was unpredictable, military trained, verbally harsh, spontaneous in more bad ways than good and never gave a moment where I could have my guard down. As a child I didnt fully understand the impact, and residual/direct effects of existential factors, gender roles, and mass media on family relations and parent/child dynamics.

I joined MGTOW after my first divorce at 29. Now, I am grateful to and respect my mother as a benefactor but not as a parent or person. Emotionally and financially, having future contact with her will cost me more than it will benefit.

Just speculating here:

You want to know what peoples relationship with their mothers is like after going full MGTOW?

In general a mother can do major damage to a young man by programming him from a young age to do/buy things for women that MGTOW goes against.

Understand that MGTOW, and its members, are not inherently hateful or spiteful towards women.

MGTOW is about men going their own way, and exposing the factors/parties that wish to subjugate and/or silence men while using traditional beliefs, roles and children's lives as weapons against us.

The anger/hate that you see comes mostly from people who found MGTOW after their divorce or false accusation. You will see a lot of conflicted feelings from those who didn't have a full education on how much damage women can do to men in todays political climate.

Hopefully this answered your question. No one here is going to tell you to hate your mother. As a matter of fact, have an honest talk with your mom about MGTOW. know the potential dangers and costs of a divorce, false rape accusation, and the chances of you finding peace/justice if a woman assaulted you physically or sexually. See where your state of being and welfare lies compared to where society is saying those should be.

Let me know if you have any more questions.

Title	Just a question.
Author	leftyshredz2003
Upvotes	5
Comments	8
Date	May 27, 2019 10:43 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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