Ladies...Everywhere we turn, we keep reading and/or hearing you ask, "where have all the good men gone," but, sadly, it seems you simultaneously refuse to acknowledge, yet alone face, the hard truths about WHY more and more men are gone, the real facts why men are walking away...IN DROVES.
The answer's pretty simple, albeit uncomfortable. We men are MORE creatures of LOGIC and REASON, not of feelings and emotions. This affords us the ability and propensity to seek out facts, even when said facts are very uncomfortable to fathom or digest.
Men aren't going down the REDPILL RABBIT-HOLE because it's fun or because it feels good. On the contrary, we don't like what we've found. As liberating as the truth is, we don't like what we've learned, one...fucking...bit.
Painful reality be damned, we've come here looking for answers. Answers as to why reality (what we observe) isn't in-line with what we've been told about YOU, about women, about relationships and how society collectively views and treats us men.
Right now, you're probably rolling your eyes, thinking, how "pussified" that last statement sounds..."how society collectively views and treats men." Yeah, we get that too. If ANY man, points out facts about mistreatment OF MEN on any level, he's instantly viewed and scolded as a weak, repulsive, pussified man-child that needs to "Man Up." This shitty, cold, throw-men-under-the-bus mentality is so entrenched in society that we MGTOW often catch ourselves doing it to each other.
On the other hand, if said man points out ANY perceived disservice to WOMEN, blue-pilled minions of all shapes, sizes and colors will come running to collectively suck his white-knighting dick. "What a shining example of MANHOOD he is!!"
Cassy Jaye, when making her "Red Pill" documentary, admitted it took her several dozen hours of repeated exposure to Red Pill facts before she finally opened her eyes and "got it."
This is why MRA's will probably never get what they want and will be viewed as weak, whining boys, no matter how solid and irrefutable their movement's cause.
Our gynocentrized society fucking hates uncomfortable facts, especially being delivered by so-called "whiny" men, who--in society's collective opinion--should just shut the fuck up, man-up and get the fuck back in line.
That is why MGTOW know it's simply better and healthier for us men to just walk away.
Ladies. Deep down in your psyches, in places you don't want to go, YOU KNOW your NOT all sugar and spice and everything nice. Your not special. You're no more important than any other being on the planet (neither are we as men and we know it). In fact, you have a darker nature that can be just as toxic and destructive as ours. You've adapted and evolved the ability to engage in incredibly cold, callous, manipulative behaviors that make men look like "pikers" in self-same areas.
Not only are you much better hard-wired for manipulating, lying, running multiple scams and covering your tracks than any other creature on earth, Mother Nature has afforded you the ability to engage in these behaviors and walk away with zero guilt, remorse or shame...without a care in the world.
That's right, She (Mother Nature) has given you the ability to remove from your conscious mind (when needed) the otherwise uncomfortable mental accountability for what you do. Without it, you'd be crippled from the debilitating effects of extreme guilt, remorse and other self-inflicted psychological pain.
We get this. It's not malicious, it's hard-wired in behavior for your SURVIVAL, WHEN NEEDED. But, given there are more social supports for women in society than any time in history, do you still need to engage in these behaviors now, in modernity?
We men acknowledge our darker nature and have dealt with a constant barrage of chastisement for it. We get it, and being creatures of logic, rationality and yes, integrity, we (in the aggregate) have taken personal responsibility in keeping our darker nature under our control. We've gone down the path of facing hard truths and have learned from doing so. We have GROWN from doing so. We know in our hearts we're better men for it.
So, this begs the question, ladies...do you have the capacity for confronting the reality of YOUR darker nature? Do you have the maturity to face the clear disparity in how society views and treats women and men?
Do you have the courage to go down the Rabbit-Hole of hard truths and face uncomfortable facts with us? Or, will you just keep living in your self-toxifying, instant gratification, fantasy-fed world, absolving yourself of personal responsibility and accountability, while modern studies repeatedly show women are more anxious, depressed and insecure than ever?
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-- QFT
With one MINOR (but I think critical) point of disagreement... and that is I do not believe that the "Women have convinced themselves" is entirely accurate or true.
Not that they are not "themselves convinced" but rather that I do not believe the INITIAL origin of it lies solely with themselves. Women after all, do not spring forth sua sponte fully grown from the Earth, they begin as children and their CORE character (as I describe more extensively below) is shaped for them by the ADULTS and the "society" that they are reared by and within.
Thus the "Princess [of all she surveys]" does not create herself as such a monstrosity -- she has been SHAPED into that form by her parents (and family, friends, etc) and the social "environment" -- the milieu if you will -- that they choose (or unwittingly/passively accept via default, without active, conscious choice or consideration or even understanding of the consequences) to raise her in.
-- In other words, the child and then adult woman, the proverbial PRINCESS so to speak "in the shape of that *'pot'"(Cf Comprachicos) did not happen by accident... she was FORMED into that during her childhood ... and then POLISHED ("set") into that by her OWN subsequent (albeit already distorted or "bent") choices during her adolescence.
This is how women in general operate with essentially everything. They engage and learn "just enough".... but "not TOO much."
To wit: as I have noted several times recently about women and things like cars -- they comprehend it only at a very shallow "quasi-magical" level: the "go" pedal, the "stop" pedal, and the "turny-wheel" thingee. Beyond that... they have no interest, and do not care (in no small part because they have been TRAINED that they do not HAVE to care).
-- To learn something more thoroughly, to actually understand ALL of it -- the good & the bad, the beneficial AND the detrimental -- well that would be to take on actual accountability for it; something that women prefer to avoid entirely, because it risks preventing them from being able to readily shift BLAME off onto someone else (men, their children, etc)...
Women have always desired the "authority" and POWER over things and people, but NOT the RESPONSIBILITY that accompanies it.
*(As I am always at pains to point out, they aren't ENTIRELY alone in that -- there are, alas, many MEN who seek after the same -- it's just that {for the most part} MEN are not able to get away with it to the same degree... OTHER men simply don't allow it; whereas the vast majority of men DO allow it with women.)
The vast majority* of the current generation(s), there is no doubt... they are IMO largely too far gone, and are beyond saving.
And the reason is simple: the cultivation of a "moral conscience" must be rooted in the sub-conscience and that has to be implanted, fertilized, and cultivated during the early childhood years; arguably from birth onwards (Cf Jean Liedloff's "In Arms" phase and "Continuum Concept") up to probably age 7 or so (i.e. the Xavier/Jesuit maxim, though it actually goes back to Aristotle, and is possibly more ancient than that).
Past that point, the person's core "character" is most likely fairly "set" -- and fundamental dramatic change is rather unlikely (there may be, likely will be some further "refinement" a polishing or deepening of the core character; probably some tweaking or "bending" of the character may take place, OR the person's behavior may go "off the rails" {leading to behavior that they themselves condemn}; but a dramatic reversal in the core "orientation" of their character, is highly unlikely, especially on any mass scale with many people).
-- * Exceptions? Yes I believe there are some -- even I suppose you could say "many" (in terms of literal numbers; albeit still** relatively trivial in terms of percentage) -- and they will largely be found among the "Old Order" communities: Amish, Mennonite, etc.; and possibly in small scattered numbers within various families here and there, where a functional male "headship" has been maintained, and where solid values have been inculcated in the children (largely via keeping them away from most "media").
The women (and girls) in those communities are not "NAWALT" -- they too share the same inherent biological "AWALT" potential -- but their "core" character, their conscience, and their overall worldview & behavior patterns have been TRAINED in a fashion that is substantively different from the entitled "princess" girls of the rest of the western society (i.e. the mentality that you have so ELOQUENTLY described in the section above my QFT note).
EDIT -- ALL of the below added as "afterthoughts" and further expansion of prior points regarding said "exceptions."
** This is SLOWLY changing -- or arguably QUICKLY depending on how you look at it -- the actual numbers of such "old order" groups (again Amish, Mennonites, etc) are in fact "exploding" in an exponential fashion... (and moreover, they have been doing so for over a century now: basically their numbers are doubling every 15 to 20 years or so). We just don't really "see" it or recognize it as the exponential/explosive growth phenom because they began with such small numbers (and only now are becoming sizable enough as a "group" to be of note***), and because their growth is largely in rural & small town areas and rather "spread out" as a result; for the most part they not only remain a "minority" in the locales they move into, but they largely remain a quiet and relatively "uninvolved/separate" minority as well.
*** At present, estimates are that the total population (in the US) of such "old order/anabaptist-separatist" groups is somewhere around, and possibly slightly over a million or so people. That probably seems unimpressive (a fraction of 1%), until you understand that around circa 2000 their numbers were likely under 500,000, and less than 20 years prior were only about 200,000, etc. If that growth continues at that pace -- and their tendency to have 6+ children per couple seems to be unabated -- and if they maintain their faith & "separated" societal order aka the "Ordnung" (which they have a pretty solid history of being able to do, regardless of the surrounding people/culture/influences), then within another generation or two... well that "remnant" will no longer be so small, neither in nominal nor "percentage" terms; particularly when you understand that they ARE -- and almost by definition HAVE to be -- rural, inland "farm" people; whereas a HUGE portion of the rest of the US population is high density urban/coastal. Point being that they are INCREASING in the "countryside" at the same time as the rest of the population is DECREASING there. Thus the divide in "Trumpland" (so to speak) versus the ever-increasing-perversity of the "Cosmopolitan [Clinton] Archipelago" becomes even more dramatic.
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-- A book about MGTOW?
No, definitely not gonna happen; at least certainly not by or from me (under this or any other nom de plume).
-- A book or books that would be for (on topics specifically useful to, etc) MGTOW...
Maybe... as in there is at least a slight chance of that happening -- but the word "slight" is probably an exaggeration (as infinitesimally small possibiity would perhaps be more accurate) -- and I would suggest you not hold your breath in anticipation of any such thing.
-- The writing of books you see really isn't the difficult part -- not for a writer (at least not for me, from my perspective anyway, LOL) -- no, the difficult & time consuming part is the whole "editing" process (before during & after the actual "writing"), and then the publishing (even POD or "ebooks") of the damnable things... Worse, to make all of that work "worth the bother" the subsequent (to me, absolutely detestable and even larger waste of time & spirit) "promotion" of them: which is an exercise in vanity & mongering that -- however performed -- taints the book, corrupts the topic (and often damages the soul of the author). Moreover, while the last step CAN (technically) be skipped -- doing so (or rather NOT doing so) renders all of the other, previous work as moot & pointless, making it yet more wasteful and an even larger exercise in vanity -- something I certainly don't need to experience any more of, personally. The whole thing then becomes a "Catch-22": damned if I do, and damned if I don't... and thus best avoided in its entirety.
-- Besides -- other than say "Unique & specific advice for a bachelor buying or building a home for himself" -- nearly all relevant topics IMO have already been covered/written by others across the ages; and indeed in many ways I think even THAT topic has been pretty much covered as well. (Cf Per example, the subject of this linked-thread that I posted a few months back. A book which is not titled in an opportunistic fashion aimed at or targeting MGTOW, but the content of which IMHO is highly relevant to MGTOW, and pretty "timeless."*)
* Which if I were to "fault" it (at least in terms of its relevance to MGTOW versus what I would contemplate writing), it would be in that regard: because "timeless" content is, by definition, not "timely"; that is to say it doesn't address any "current year" issues like pricing, financing, avoiding the pitfalls of the BS that realtors currently push/promote, much less anticipatory things like "best locations relevant to SHTF/TEOTWAWKI scenarios" and so on. But again that's not really a failing of that book or author, merely a limitation of its applicability to [current year] MGTOW.
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You have betrayed the love and trust of good men by breaking your marriage vows for a few moments of excitement. You have lied to men about your fidelity and gaslighted them when presented with evidence of your lies. When he can take no more and you finally leave, on your way out the door, you have stolen men's property out of greed or destroyed it out of spite. You have abused your own children in order to hurt men you no longer have use for, or have murdered them unborn at the slightest whim. Then, you wallow in your own filth and solipsism to public approval, as you stretch out a dainty finger to demand yet more largesse with which to gorge yourselves from what you assume will be a never-ending pool of suitors. Then finally when the stench of all your wrongdoing covers everything around you, you blame the men you wronged for daring to leave your vileness on display.
If you were given the equality you claim to seek, you'd scream in agony for it to end within a week.
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