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Messy Divorces Will Always Keep Men From Wanting To Get Married

Arzu1982

November 7, 2016
25 upvotes
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Title Messy Divorces Will Always Keep Men From Wanting To Get Married
Author

Arzu1982

Upvotes 25
Comments 26
Date November 7, 2016 4:36 PM UTC
(9 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/5bn514/messy_divorces_will_always_keep_men_from_wanting/
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Comments

[–]JStheHammer 23 points24 points25 points 9 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

Every man knows several men who are divorced raped. The problem is too many thirsty men think his snowflake is NAWALT.

[–]CharlesDarwin595 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

Nawalt?

[–]metalreflectslime6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

NAWALT = Not All Women Are Like This.

NAWALT is the result of https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Optimism_bias

40% of all 1st marriages end in divorce before either partner dies.

Every male likes to think that he will be in the 60% that will never get divorced.

Everyone likes to think positively of themselves.

If you ask people how they think they compare to the population, 90% of people will say that they are smarter than the average person.

When someone fails a class, they always say "I did not pass" rather than "I failed" even though both sentences mean the exact same thing and saying "I did not pass" takes longer to say.

[–]MajorBeef246 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

If you get married today, the chance of divorce is way higher. If you're young, it's like 80% I read somewhere. The 40% figure includes the older generation for whom divorce was rare and shameful. For the under-60s, and especially under-40s, divorce is fashionable and encouraged. IME the 40% figure seems to be about right for the generation currently in their 40s and maybe (late) 30s roughly. For young guys getting married in their 20s, it's almost doomed to fail. And second marriages have around a 70% divorce rate even including older ones. If someone divorces once, they're clearly not marriageable. And the single people (especially women as it's usually them who start it) past 40 are obviously not marriageable as they have likely initiated a divorce already. Singles in their 30s have probably been CC riding and are suddenly looking to "settle down" (find a guy to pay for them so they can quit their jobs). All the marriageable women are married before their late 20s and aren't likely to become single again as they are likely to stay married.

The 40% figure doesn't sound too bad for a lot of men, it's under half after all. But the truth is that it's misleading, and the odds of divorce are far higher if you get married today. It's almost a certainty for 3rd marriages (why people do that I have no idea) and for very young couples.

[–]the-capitan 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

the chance of divorce is way higher

here you go: https://dalrock.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/uk_divorces_by_age_of_wife_by_decade.jpg

the divorce rate of millennial women is fucking atrocious. the only possible chance you have of a NAWALT is if (1) she has a low n-count, and (2) her parents were married when they had her, are still married, and were never divorced. those are the two largest factors which predict divorce, and you can get the probability of divorce under 10%. when women are filing 70% of divorces (more than twice as many as men), all of her issues matter twice as much.

but wait, there's more! the only reason to get married is to have kids. if you're not having kids, you should not get married. this also means she needs to be fertile and healthy. almost 70% of women are overweight or obese (read: not healthy), so (3) you've got to find a girl who isn't a fattie. then you've got timing. the national average is ~3.5 years of pre-engagement dating, 1.5 years of engagement, and 9 months from conception to birth. so if you want 2+ kids, and you want to mitigate unnecessary health risks, (4) you need to start dating her before she's 27. any woman older than that has missed her window.

if your woman doesn't meet all 4 requirements, she's objectively AWALT, and either she's not giving you healthy kids, or she's going to take half your shit (including your kids). and there's no chance she's a unicorn.

[–]Random-Reddit-Lurker0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No.

No, no, no.

The sole reason a NAWALT is called a unicorn is because THEY DO NOT FUCKING EXIST!

The rest of your text is mere hyperbole.

/rant.

[–]metalreflectslime0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

What do "IME" and "CC" mean?

[–]MajorBeef241 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Ah, I use them all the time so didn't think of that. Maybe I'll bracket the meaning for the first one in future.

IME - In my experience, like in my opinion

CC - Cock Carousel, slutting it up on Tinder, having a different dick in you every week/month.

[–]Mrthechipster0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

why is that bad? I want an easy fuck Im happy if women are doing this

[–]MajorBeef242 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It ain't bad for us. It's bad for marriage and "serious" relationships - and the men that want them. It's bad for society too (though IDGAF about society anymore). For us, it's more reason to go and stay mgtow - no excessive commitment and emotional attachment, absolutely no marriage.

[–]byers189011 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

There is a theory that suggests after 3-5 sexual partners a female loses her ability to pair bond. IE (in english) get and stay married.

[–]LetsGoAllTheWhey0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"All the marriageable women are married before their late 20s and aren't likely to become single again as they are likely to stay married." - I don't believe that at all. Especially if you're saying that guys marrying in their 20's are doomed to fail. The two statements are contradictory. If young men end up in a divorce so do young women.

The average failure rate in marriages is roughly 50%. If the older generation is more likely to stay married then the younger generation is more than 50% likely to divorce.

[–]MajorBeef240 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I believe the % of young women who are capable of maintaining a marriage is ~10-20%. They may liely stay married. So it is possible that 80% will divorce, and still leave most of the good ones taken. If that makes sense, I don't think I'm explaining it well

[–]CharlesDarwin592 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Gotcha

[–]zmKozXyH60 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not all women are like that.

[–]fickle_fuck4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Messy divorces will always keep smart men from wanting to get married. I don't know how many times I see some wealthy businessman or sports player get married, only to get divorce raped, and marry all over again. Rinse and repeat. Completely baffles me why some guys keep doing it.

[–]2045_revolution2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

inse and repeat. Completely baffles me why some guys keep doing it.

Society shames unmarried men. That is a big part of it, there is no cultural acceptance for the fact that some men have better lives by being unmarried or not in LTRs.

Lots of guys internalize this and feel like failures unless they marry.

[–]victor_knight0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's because they've been brainwashed NAWALT. Technically and statistically, this may even be true but it's not a good bet regardless. That's the part they don't seem to get (and nobody tells them except maybe we MGTOW).

[–]TVTestPattern 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

50% is the average divorce rate in the US. Polls find at least half of the still married are unhappy... and that's very generous since it's a poll.

So... best case scenario... 75% chance marriage will make you miserable one way or another.

Do you want to play a game?

[–]JStheHammer 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

50% of parachutes fail, who wants to jump with me?

[–]droppincliffs0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

In this day and age, I'd jump twice.

[–]victor_knight0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hence.

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[–]Dark---Horse0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My divorce was not messy, but will NEVER EVER fall in the pussy trap again just the same!!

[–]victor_knight0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

More like keep them from wanting to get remarried (even then it's no guarantee). The pull of DNA to reproduce is just too strong and few men actually have options aside from tying the knot. The state and medical establishment, of course, know this and that's how they prefer things stay.

[–]andreas-mgtow0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No brah, just find your Unicorn, sure thing, no divorce rape. That or a female penguin, they are both totally loyal and faithful.

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