Finding a NAWALT is of no use, because she will not stay one. Given the temptation to abuse the gynocentric laws even a NAWALT will end up divorce raping you.

So, the core of the problem are the politically-invented laws.

These politically-invented laws are the result of whatever so-called "democratic" process that created them.

Hence, the problem is democracy itself.

Some people will argue that properly-implemented democracy would not introduce that kind of problem. These people make the same mistake, however, as the ones who argued that communism itself was not the problem, but that the Soviet Union just did not implement it properly.

Democracy cannot solve the democratic conundrum, i.e. the consideration that democracy is fundamentally not viable. Otherwise, if democracy could solve the problem, the problem would not even exist in the first place. As Albert Einstein famously said:

We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.

As a tactical retreat, MGTOW is obviously a very sound approach. For the time being, just keep yourself out of the quagmire. I fully recommend it.

The strategic consideration to make, however, is that there is fundamentally no democratic solution to the problem. Therefore, we will have to acknowledge the harsh truth: the only viable long-term solution consists in decisively overthrowing the democratic regime.