Monk mode ?

CrossfadeAMV · 2020-08-20T11:33:11+00:00

Alone, in sense, lack of sex or companionship?

I can identify with the first one. For the companionship issue, please remember that what you will be given is fake. Disney till death takes us apart is extremely rare. Better get a dog or something.

Ocjab · 2020-08-20T11:57:35+00:00

Well, every time I feel lonely I think to myself:

If there was someone living with me now, she would be whining now about her feefees. Wouldn't let me take a rest.

Would fight me to watch what on television.

Would fight me for stupid reasons that don't matter at ALL.

Or give me the silent treatment with the chance of 99% a misunderstanding happened.

It would be a mess here and I would have been cleaning shit up right now.

Man, I'm happy I'm not in a relationship anymore.

gwaikato23 · 2020-08-20T12:01:50+00:00

Now I have time for my-self. I read a lot, and keep thinking about questions like ' what is my purpose ' etc. It is that which overwhelms me sometimes. For 2 weeks I am disciplined and for the next 2 weeks I am in a mess literally. Is there anything like purpose or duty or ambition that drives you. This is what i originally intended to ask... sorry for the confusion.

RealityAsWeKnowIt · 2020-08-20T12:07:40+00:00

Once you are spiritually elevated, follow a belief and have a code to live by, it gets wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy easier to handle it, i can live through my entire life with no human interaction and i would still be happy, on the other hand you have a lot of things, travelling, gaming, gym, art, music, for example if you did not know how to play certain instruments such as the guitar, you may want to consider to invest your time into that, focusing on your sovereignty, happiness, self worth, You Are Amazing as a Man brother, never forget that, It's a long way ahead, we are the fortunate few who got to learn the truth, everytime you overthink on your loneliness, just think about all the miserable manlettes suffering in relationshits, dealing with their gf's bs/drama/mood swings/atitude/mouthiness, etc etc etc, when you find what you love to do, and be at peace with it, having anyone around you becomes an option not a necessity, you are lonely because you are TELLING yourself that you are lonely, consider it isolation, a Lone way,and you will realise that one's outlook on things can change a lot.

Good luck.

PhazonAran · 2020-08-20T17:58:22+00:00

There's nobody in my life that I would call a friend.

I do have a few social interactions, mainly through the group motorcycles rides that I take part in, but once I'm home I could turn the phone off, wouldn't make a difference.

I did feel lonely for a time, but not anymore. My life is peaceful, drama-free and I learned to enjoy the fact that I can do what I want whenever I want without having to take someone else's needs in consideration.

2020-08-21T12:45:42+00:00

I’ve been out of relationships for 2 years now too and let me tell you the money i’ve saved up and peace of mind always dissuade me to get into anything with a bitch ever again. “Fuck these hoes” - Tupac

Chad_Magnus · 2020-08-20T13:39:57+00:00

Keep busy, try learning C++ that alone would cure you. Or mark all tanks in World of Tanks to the 3rd mark of excellence.

Shimakaze4 · 2020-08-20T15:58:14+00:00

10 coming on 11 years monk mode for me. Being by myself is easier for me being an only child, I had to entertain myself a lot during childhood. I live at home with my parents who are in their 60's, it's a decent arrangement. They have someone around to do work they cannot and I get a free room. As for the lack of relationships, it just doesn't bother me anymore, the older I get the more I think I am totally incapable of being in a relationship again, not even a fuck buddy arrangement. If I ever feel the need for the female touch again, I guess I'll just rent the best 18 year old pussy I can find for a few hours, but that urge just has not come to pass and the older I get the less I think it will.

gonadon · 2020-08-20T16:10:39+00:00

if you was in a relationship, you'd have to think about what is her future with you and bend yourself to make it bright or she will be unhappy with you. dont need that!

Title	Monk mode ?
Author	gwaikato23
Upvotes	11
Comments	18
Date	August 20, 2020 11:22 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/id8gc1/monk_mode/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/monk-mode.167581 https://theredarchive.com/post/167581

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