Mothers

bobbyricky63 · 2018-07-23T03:55:26+00:00

Wore her heart on her sleeve. The complete package of emotion manipulation. Logic and reason only exist on pages in a dictionary. She’s in a nursing home now pegging the emotional manipulation meter. Hangs up on me if I question anything she says, regardless of the amount of tact and compassion provided. I miss dad.

Silver_The_Bard · 2018-07-23T04:07:15+00:00

Psychology has proven an advantage with having BOTH parents while growing up. So I don't think mothers in general create the problem. But that 11.2 million single mothers vs 2.4 million single fathers creates a HUGE discrepancy. So you might be on to something.

Docbear64 · 2018-07-23T04:10:57+00:00

My mom is a very passionate woman and my grandfather had a legendary mean streak which she inherited. My mom loves hard as fuck ( as do I) but her bad days were EVERYONES bad days . It was amplified by my equally stubborn and emotional stepfather . So in a delicious two for one both parents had to hopefully have a good day or else it would be nothing but shouting and anger echoing through the walls of the house.

Honestly my moms anger taught me how I don't want to function in the world. I love her to pieces and in her older age she's much much calmer but It's hard to explain how upsetting it can be coming home and not knowing the situation that awaits you .

I love her but I've vowed to make my own home my peaceful sanctuary ,honestly it's probably why I have such an incredibly short fuse for bullshit when it comes to women .

I know what it's like to come home to a raging asshole, to work hard, walk through the door and within minutes wanna walk right back out and start a new work day again .

I love my mom and I know she loves me but sweet Jesus I will never put up with another womans emotional explosion again as long as I live. I'd rather be alone then in an environment where it feels like a bomb can go off at any moment.

DJDickJob · 2018-07-23T05:22:26+00:00

My mom sucks ass. Smoked around me when I was a baby, now I'm 29 and she treats me like I'm nothing but a horrible piece of shit. Basically accuses me of everything she's guilty of. She ruined my dad's life, got pregnant to lock him in, threatened to abort me if he didn't marry her. He's dead now, he killed himself. When he died, she was only worried about getting his money, didn't seem very upset about her husband being dead. She's manipulative and rewrites history in her head to match whatever she wants to believe. She's never wrong about anything and everything is someone else's fault. She tells people what they want to hear so she doesn't have to face reality. Sits on the couch all day, letting her house go to shit and never getting anything done, and orders shit online that she doesn't need because "it was on sale." Explosive anger over the most insignificant shit, constantly cussing and bitching every time she has to get off the couch or leave the house. Lied to the police once and got me thrown in a psyche ward because she was mad at me. Did the same thing to my dad another time but he went to jail. Vindictive fucking bitch. I'm probably missing some stuff but I think you get it. Narcissism, BPD.

RafiquePromenade · 2018-07-23T09:54:54+00:00

It seems that women only see their sons as utility judging from the stories around here.
My mum lives abroad so we don't speak unless I go to my grandmother's, when I do, she wants to get on the phone with me, my grandmother told me my mum wants to hear her son's voice which makes me feel loved, but i got potential so she's probably harvesting me to milk me in the future.
Regardless, I'm gonna ghost my mum, if she doesn't love me, I just saved myself, if she does, it's my way of getting even with women.

XteveMcQueen · 2018-07-23T12:43:19+00:00

My mom was rich and had everyone around her doing everything for her including my father who supplied her with the cash. I went out into the world and married someone similar to my mom. I went to therapy. I got divorced. I started dating. Turns out that most (all) women are similar(same) until I found the unicorn. Married the unicorn. Went back to therapy. Got a divorce (again). Turns out that there are no unicorns.

I’ve spent decades proving that AWALT is real. It has cost me a literal fortune to come to the conclusion that all women are the same and regardless of the background they all aspire to be the same exalted thing which is to have everything provided for them without contributing.

WhiteMalePublicSrvnt · 2018-07-23T12:45:03+00:00

Growing up, mom was always right, there was no questioning her - even if you knew she was wrong.
If you did there was hell to pay, I wasn't beaten, a few slaps on the ass here and there, but the emotional trauma was more painful and if mom ended up in a shitty mood everyone knew it and you were forced to apologies regardless of any actual wrongdoing.

This view was actively supported and perpetuated by my dad, I think he had well and truly given up on the idea of being right by my early adolescence.
Admittedly, mom wasn't stupid, she did know her shit and more often than not she was right.
But perhaps this is just a self fulfilling prophecy of sorts, it was just easier to go along with her idea or agree with her thoughts.

As I got older I became a bit more frustrated by this "fact of life" and there were many fights and arguments as a result.

Things became a lot easier when I moved out of the family home in my early twenties and I didn't have to see both of them every single day.
In the years that followed, their marriage collapsed with lengthy periods of separation, different sleeping quarters, affairs, emotional and financial manipulation on both sides - the works.

I harbor no ill will to either of my parents, but this experience growing up made me increasingly wary of jumping into relationships.
In retrospect my up bringing is probably pretty good by most standards and more recently I've been able to form more healthy relationships with both of my parents.

Marriage really does seem to bring out the worst in people - women in particular.

Ghustgan · 2018-07-23T09:32:22+00:00

My mom was a fucking angel who worked her ass off her entire life, then busted her ass off for everyone she cared about (her side of the family at first, then us) on top of that without asking anything in return from anyone.

So, I believe it's a cultural thing. There are different kinds of moms and it all depends on how she grew up in the first place. Modern society has pampered people to hell and back with women getting pampered the most, which is why nobody has values anymore.

blablable123456 · 2018-07-23T12:39:15+00:00

She was and still is a disgusting slut. Im waiting to have enough money so I can move out and never see her again. I had problems with anxiety and depression but im over it, or i think im. My dad is an idiot that doesnt think about anyone but himself.

Title	Mothers
Author	KushKenobi
Upvotes	15
Comments	17
Date	July 23, 2018 3:51 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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