This guy worked his entire life like crazy to provide his wife and daughter with every status symbol they could possibly come up with, recently, he paid for the construction of a new house in a very expensive part of the city and bought his wife a car that costs about R$120k while his car costs about R$30k.

The thing is… he was always financially overreaching to provide from expensive phones and jewelry to houses and cars and that caused him to be ALWAYS red in the bank which in turn would make our payment late.

I quit the job because of my knee, the workload was very physically demanding and I didn't want any health problems so I got out and got a job that pays less.

Ever since I discovered MGTOW I wanted to write about him here, he was extremely unhappy, every time I went to his house his wife would bitch and moan about things that “they” absolutely “had” to buy, his only peace was when he was outside of his own home.

He’s in his 50s now and apparently he fucked up his arm for real and will probably not be able to work like he did in the past, and he will have to because turns out he just found out his wife was cheating on him which made him drive to his house and break absolutely everything inside, from plates and tables to bathroom sinks, and everything was expensive, everything was still being paid for.

I have 3 things to say:

1: Although he is not a bad guy per se I think that when you pander to women’s bullshit you become immoral, we stayed in the job because it paid really well, the problem was his late payments really hurt his brother who was trying to build up his life again after a separation.

It was weird to work our asses off and know that the product of our sweat went to some woman, It was weird having to wait as much as 15 days to get half the payment while his wife just got a new car and his daughter a new phone, it made his younger brother who had moved from a different state looking for better opportunity (that my boss offered) really depressed.

2: It really makes me sad to see good people having their entire lives taken from them, he did the things he did because he thought he was doing the RIGHT thing, he thought he was being a MAN. Men work and work and work and in the end they get fucked, I would probably kill myself if I’ve gotten used like that.

3: It is now weird to see things though a MGTOW lens, most things have a really big rippling effect… The relationship a man has with his wife doesn't just affect himself, it affects everyone he comes in contact with.

I’m sorry for any grammar mistakes, it has been 6-7 years since I had to write anything.