Pre-divorce, he was overweight, sad, never smiled, sullen.

Post-divorce: Tanned. Lost a ton of weight and gained muscle mass. Friendly. Smiles all the time. A different lady friend visiting him every other weekend or so. Takes his dogs and boat out (when the weather is good) on the river. Plays music he likes. Cooks what he likes. He's truly a changed man.

Remember: Marriage - not EVEN once!