Need help understanding this.

bitter_samsara · 2017-06-06T18:50:35+00:00

It's fine for a guy to seek female companion, we're not here to tell people what they can and can't do with their lives. But if you seek female companion and still call yourself a MGTOW no one will take you seriously. What's the point of identifying with a philosophy that you don't even practice.

mentalidade_logica · 2017-06-06T18:58:03+00:00

I interpret MGTOW as = doing what, where, who, why, how you want, foremost in your own terms without shame or guilt. Just make sure you take precautions when women are involved, with condoms (under your strict control) and bring a lawyer along on your date, or a viable alternative.

GehrmanTheHoonter · 2017-06-06T19:50:48+00:00

You do what you do, mate. That's the point of mgtow, to me anyway.

Personally, I'm not interested in dating. Too much risk for too little a reward.

PLUTOKRAT · 2017-06-06T19:08:50+00:00

Tldr is it ok for a mgtow to seek a female companion for friends with benefits type of ordeal.

You're fucked. :)

Why would you spend money time and energy with s.o. who isn't certain to give you sex?. Maybe it's me but I like escorts better...

TerminallyOdd · 2017-06-06T19:07:39+00:00

I'm in one right now. We text back and forth, shoot the shit about this and that, and I go over to her place for sex once a week, or every other week. She's looking for love, has another dude who takes her out (as that is something she wants in her quest for love), but that's not my problem.

If the moment calls for it, I'll meet a woman at a bar and start this process over again. I enjoy that part of female interaction - the flirtation, the sex, all that. It's a rush...an ego trip. The reason this isn't encouraged is that it's very easy to get baited into a relationship when you confuse lust for love. I would say this is bound to happen if you play with fire, especially if you're younger and haven't been burned yet.

I'm MGTOW in a sense in that that's all I'm giving of myself to a woman. I will not hand myself over emotionally to a woman. I do what I want basically all of the time and that's how I like to live. I can't see myself swearing off women entirely, but I'm certainly going my own way.

ikhwan_arif · 2017-06-06T20:55:54+00:00

The bottomline definition of a MGTOW - Don't get married, Don't get a woman pregnant, Don't cohabit with a woman.

Those are the rules since 2008. it has been the rules since. Some people want to be mgtow while still married, I say you can try, but you'll fail miserably.

By extension, you want female companionship, go ahead, but while you're in this "relationship of sorts," you'll find your mind will wander into Blue Pilled plantation again; she will only need you to say to her "I love you"and you're fucked.

But as long as you remember the rules mentioned above. You should be able to recover from making a monumentally life-altering mistake.

Good luck man.

Talkytalktalk · 2017-06-06T19:06:43+00:00

Shmeeeeeeeeee · 2017-06-06T19:26:43+00:00

I typed a whole lot but it all got lost but I'll pretty much cut to the chase now. I believe that the trend of mgtow would be able to help standardize alot of the issues with feminism and rape and cheating divorce and children born out of wedlock. By spreading the mgtow belief we as men are able to teach other men that we give these woman alot of leverage by fawning over how beautiful they are and how at times weak and innocent they can be. As alot of Pia's can tell you these sweet cute innocent women are very much wild and crazy deep down inside. With that being said I also believe that on the flip side women can adjust their attitudes of feeling like sweet innocent females that nearly focus on looking like fashion models everyday to women that can try their hardest to live modest humble lives that go out of their way to try their hardest to make the world a better place.

It's just so hard comparing the fact of a man being put in this world by a females with the help of a man. To just totally reject women for not only who they are... But for who they are for the sole fact that they are women. Now I do believe their are some women so far down the rabbit hole to the point of no return. But their are also men that view that and feel that that how all women are... All in all I want to say that as a mgtow I believe that alot of the things we dislike about some women is due to the fact that they over dress and we feel they are very beautiful distractions or they under dress and not meet the man's expectation. - yet on the flip side I believe that alot of men that became mgtow was because of the fact that they either did over dress and couldn't obtain women or they we're under dressed and females are to materialist to talk to a man without designer items... As a mgtow I don't believe in dressing to the happiest of meeting someone and also as a mgtow I don't believe I should feel pressured to say the right things around women to please her emotions.

eltonl · 2017-06-07T03:21:10+00:00

I do this with escorts some casual sex. You do what you want bro, this is not a religion its a idea.

Cicuta · 2017-06-07T14:43:41+00:00

Now that I think of it I don't have any female friends. I suspect that is because in my area of expertise they are nearly all female or Blue Pills. Not really interested in knowing them.

Title	Need help understanding this.
Author	Shmeeeeeeeeee
Upvotes	17
Comments	23
Date	June 6, 2017 6:44 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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