Need men’s advice

FreedomReclaimed · 2019-06-01T21:38:02+00:00

I’d just cut her loose. Intuition is a strong thing.

[deleted] · 2019-06-01T21:42:50+00:00

Unless your girl has a dick, an open condom in her room IS PROOF of cheating. You are just in denial because it's bright as the day what she did and why you are sex starving.

If i were you i would be cutting every contact with her, cheated once she can easily do it twice (and more).

krugerand9 · 2019-06-01T21:37:37+00:00

The answer is on her phone, if you want to cross that line.

krenovinspired · 2019-06-01T21:59:17+00:00

Dude. Dump her and complete ghost. She's being a ho. You can't turn a ho into anything else. Get out.

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2019-06-01T21:33:53+00:00

The red flags are raised. You need to remain vigilant so when she slips up, you'll be able to pick up on it. Gather your evidence and don't let her gaslight you.

DWShimoda · 2019-06-01T22:06:21+00:00

I don’t know what to do

Yes... you do.

DTB.

jstrockmeyer · 2019-06-01T23:06:10+00:00

Listen to your gut

You already have your answer.

If you have feelings, run already.

If not, its your choice to keep her for sex. I wouldn't.

Gaslighting leaves you even more fucked up, and even from here this looks like it.

Stay strong

Older_Miggy · 2019-06-01T22:32:57+00:00

Wrong sub.

Ditch this cunt.

GrandYam_HomeRun · 2019-06-01T21:44:13+00:00

Let this be a lesson to anyone thinking of getting in a relationship. With the level of thirst out there and easy dick at her fingertips, you will be dealing with this same problem as OP - you just don't know.

You know why women are better cheaters than men? Deep down they don't think what they're doing is wrong. That's how the hamster works - if she's cheating it either doesn't count or it's your fault. How many stories must we hear of how normal she was acting while getting banged like a broken screen door.

Shrewski · 2019-06-01T21:40:58+00:00

You need to gather evidence without her knowing. Make it seem like everything is fine but remain vigilant and on the lookout.

Also never fuck that bitch again without a condom. You don’t want to catch something.

EntropicTribe · 2019-06-01T22:32:16+00:00

Now, you've come to this place for advice on women. This place is literally defined by how it doesnt like relationships with women as a whole, so bias is gonna be strong. Granted I dont think your here for an unbiased answer, you want someone to tell you what you think, you want someone else to tell you what to think so that you can have essentially a moral deniability. Here's what's gonna happen, either you stand for yourself and stop listening for someone else to dictate what you think. Or you continue as you are, you try to break up with your girlfriend, she lies and gaslights you telling you not to think what others tell you, and you stay with her whither or not the reality of the situation is she cheated or not. Make your choice

user_miki · 2019-06-01T23:35:55+00:00

don't be a simp, trust your gut and dump her.We never advocate to go back with a bitch.

tdh792 · 2019-06-02T01:14:07+00:00

Mgtow is always the answer. End it. Be happy.

Seek arrangement if you need to.

RedPilledSimp · 2019-06-02T00:02:36+00:00

I like to think anything about everything can be asked her OP. My advice? Leave her. Walk away. You think this is bullshit from her? LMAO. This is not even the warming up phase of bullshit.

lucamirel · 2019-06-01T22:34:22+00:00

I’ll just keep her for sex. And try to meet only for sex. Is good she used condom but do you think she blow him with condom? Sorry did you kiss her after? If you still see her use condom all time don’t be idiot. And tell her what you really fucking want.

Pliyii · 2019-06-01T23:21:31+00:00

You don't know if you opened a condom or not?

rosspghettod · 2019-06-02T00:44:41+00:00

Just bang her when you’re horny and try to leverage your relationship status to get another hotter chick. Don’t think twice about dumping her when the time is right.

Don’t have kids, don’t cohabitate.

Have a nice day.

InAWhirl · 2019-06-02T05:31:26+00:00

Dump her. Ghost her. Trust your gut, 98% of the time it is correct. You don't want to know what she's doing behind your back, it will fuck you up mentally. If she does admit to anything it will be trickle truths and lies. You have the choice to be blind and nieve or you can just leave with your dignity in tact.

girlfriendisaliar · 2019-06-02T06:59:41+00:00

Your a fucking idiot

MaestroLogical · 2019-06-02T07:45:47+00:00

This isn't relationship advice mate. You won't find the suggestions you're wanting here. We dispense the truth, no platitudes.

flow2high · 2019-06-02T13:39:32+00:00

Some thinking about getting truth:

send her flowers from anonymous source
if she hide the flowers from you, she is sheeting

These must be really more elaborated then those simple 2 steps...

personal opinion: I would say intuition is a strong thing.

burninglemons24 · 2019-06-01T22:03:06+00:00

Jesus how about you talk to your girlfriend for crying out loud

Thelivingweasel · 2019-06-02T02:26:30+00:00

Hey man just going to say this cause I saw your post while I'm here lurking on extremist subreddits. It does kinda sound like your gf is cheating on you, but I don't know. Just don't listen to the people here.

Many people suck, and yet all women are not one evil lying person.

When they say red pill here, what they mean is give up completely on half of humanity because you feel hurt.

There's a lot of male strength and pride around here, which I respect. There are also a lot of truly broken people.

You can make your own way without anger and distain towards strangers.

edit:

This one is to the subreddit. "Men Going Their Own Way" is sounding an awful lot like "Men Telling a Boy He Should Live His Life Exactly Like Them or He is Naive" right now. I feel like you have a responsibility to be more than a hate group, and encourage young men towards self-determinism instead of using scare tactics.

Just a thought. You all are, of course, allowed to do whatever you want.

Title	Need men’s advice
Author	SDSDbeer
Upvotes	39
Comments	39
Date	June 1, 2019 9:29 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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Yes... you do.