Good morning, men!

Yesterday I went to my uncle's party, it's been a while since the last time I saw my relatives so I decided to drink some beer, watch a soccer match and talk random stuff to relax. In the process someone came up with the conversation that I dropped college and my grampa saying I wasn't going to get anything, others saying that I had already finished but I didn't want to say, others telling me what should be my next step in my career. And all this talking came out of nowhere, with no context, nada, as if they were waiting for a chance to say all this.

I had a quick processing in my mind:

1°- Never told them about putting my college studies on hold (I did it because I never wanted to go to college in the first place, I just went because someone told me to do it) and now I'm following a different path that will still give me some good cash. And if I want to finish it later, I will but it'll be my choice.

2°- Why should I have to tell anyone my project status as if I was accountable to them? I just share my stuff here bcoz I want to inspire you guys to seek your projects too, but I don't HAVE TO do it...

3°- How in the hell does one think he/she is capable of telling me what should be my next step on my caree if we haven't seen each other in like 8 months?

And the million Trump (aka dollar) question: Who the fuck told these people what I doing with my damn life?

The answer was simple: my grandma. She is the one always asking those stuff and I never bothered telling her (at least until now) and she spreads these shit to people despite the fact I told her I don't like others knowing what I'm doing because they will tell me what to do and I don't like this shit. It's really hard for me to remember every BS people made to fuck me up so I usually save a doc with their pic and every good or bad stuff they did so when they come to me I have a safeguard so I don't make the same mistake again.

About their questions: I just said it wasn't on hold, I was about to finish it but I decided to spend more time on college learning a few subjects I considered useful to the career the other guy told me I should follow (I won't do it, but giving this excuse shuts everyone up at once)

I really don't like to get into debates, specially with people still plugged in the matrix, I learned a good lesson thou, bcoz I was telling the matrix through my grandma what my projects were and she was doing what she was programmed to do: tell others, and these people doing their part: program me to a shallow purpose inside the system.

This is a lesson, guys. Never tell people what you're doing, unless you're seeking suggestions from them (and obviously this person should be related to what you're doing). If you tell your projects to someone and it's not according to the matrix plan, they will try to shame you back to slavery.

I'm doing a math and considering if I should stop visiting them, every party they come up with different matrix BS to eslave me...