So I’ve been seeing this woman.

I met her on Tinder and I invited her over to my place for the first date. (Stupid, in retrospect.) We put on a movie and did most everything except actual sex. I let her know up front I’m not interested in marriage and don’t care whether a relationship lasts long or fizzles out. I texted her after and let her know I had a really good time. She said that she did too.

I had to cancel our second meeting due to a condition I have and I was really not feeling well that day. She was bummed out and now she seems to be displaying manipulative behavior now. She accused me of being a fuckboy even though she agreed to come over and started constantly pestering me to call her. (I didn’t.) I rescheduled with a time and a place but she still seemed really insecure after. I told her that I am still down, but her constant pestering and self conscious behavior was making me feel worse. Hasn’t texted me back since.

I honestly want to get out now without ghosting, but I’m not sure how to go about it. I won’t be making the same mistake again once all is said and done. Modern day relationships really are just not worth the trouble.