shakes up a man more than the realisation that he is sharing this planet with a breeding, consuming fellow creature he is driven to mate with. And no one has really come up with ideas on how to co-exist safely with said creatures other than warily and risk managed as best you can without triggering any of the risks you are going to have hanging over you, no matter what.

Edit" I have good scientific reason to believe we are the servant gender. This is pure red pill. Not speculation or political grandstanding. My quandry is how to serve myself and use these creatures for the pleasure they deliver WITHOUT being turned to their service. This should hopefully clarify my post.