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[–]Vraboxin 67 points68 points69 points 7 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
I was told by multiple women I need therapy because I'm not interested in dating.
[–]Revorob24 points25 points26 points 7 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Same here. To be fair, I am on the high end of the autism spectrum which probably explains a lot. Yet, women feel the need to venture the opinion that it is "wrong" for me to be single. I have no doubt that if I were to express a similar opinion about a single woman, I would be roasted alive.
That I am a) not willing to be an ATM for a woman and b) better off by myself anyway appears not to be good enough for most women.
Not that I give a crap what most women think anyway but why do women seem to feel they have the right to comment on the life choices of men?
[–]Vraboxin 30 points31 points32 points 7 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Here's a pro tip; they'll always try to put you on the defensive with the "Why don't you want to date?" bullshit.
But instead of defending yourself by explaining and wasting your time, put THEM on the defensive by asking "why should I date?" and watch them struggle to come up with arguments.
If they give an argument, it'll always be something that can't be backed up with logic, like "Mental health!" so just ask "So you're saying it's impossible to be mentally healthy if you're single?"
[–]Sir_manalot21 points22 points23 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Or just ignore them.
[–]Vraboxin 16 points17 points18 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Basically the same thing. No need to explain or waste energy in justifying yourself. When they attack you with questions, just ask questions back. Don't provide your reasons, ask them to provide theirs.
[–]Blackfysh886 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As casually as possible. Smile, even.
[–]PleaseComeCorrect3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well shit, man... That's no fun... You gotta make that brain melt!
[–]Sir_manalot3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Except it won't.
By engaging with them, you empower them.
Sure, on a personal level you will feel like they are stupid and you won...but they will always walk away feeling the same thing.
[–]PleaseComeCorrect0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I always felt that way before I demanded positive confirmation and began accepting silence as that positive confirmation.
It's hard for them to walk away feeling like they won with tears streaming down their face from embarrassment.
[–]Poetic-License2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Trying to come to a logical agreement with most* women is like the old expression about teaching a pig to sing. *Really all, just wanted a second dig.
[–]PMmepicsofyourtits5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why don't you want to date anyone? Because I can't find anyone worth dating.
Easy answer
[–]CeleritySteam0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Autism is hyper rationality and a natural bullshit filter. Of course they're not interested.
As for your question, attention seeking and drama whoring behavior, aka AWALT.
[–]Samuraidweeb0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Just tell em you're still hang up on your ex and they'll leave you alone.
[–]Vraboxin 7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Any argument gives them ammunition to attack you further.
Instead of justifying why I don't want a relationship, I started asking them to explain how a relationship will benefit me, they go speechless.
[–]Poetic-License0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I tell them I used to sport fuck, but after I hit 500 the thrill was gone. I can usually hear their Barney Rubble foot sound effect as they dash.
[–]Slaide0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Dating would probably end up with you requiring therapy.
[–]Vraboxin 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Amen. Been there.
[–]SuperMello31 points32 points33 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You gay?
Sure, why not. See ya.
[–]alphamale9681 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Guess it’s time to go put that, uhh... penis in my mouth.
[–]SpaceCowboyBop0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I actually said that to a woman before who was drunk out with her husband, they were sat together talking to us all. She was so loud and obnoxious because she was the only woman there and drunk, she wanted attention. I was sat opposite her and kind of ignoring her. Others were giving her the attention she wanted despite her husband being right next to her, he was a big guy as well not a wimp. She asked if I were gay and I burst out laughing and just said "Yeah why not". Their shaming attempts are a joke.
[–]Edixo199328 points29 points30 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I had a girl the other day ask if I was a pedophile because I told her about my MGTOW ways. Never have I been more insulted.
[–]7437447118 points19 points20 points 7 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
"Umm no. Are you a whore?"
[–]Brother_Judas18 points19 points20 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Redundant question
[–]treble-n-bass15 points16 points17 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Rhetorical
[–]Colonel_FuzzyCarrot18 points19 points20 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How'd you get this photo of me?
[–]Monsieur_Valjean8 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
The cousin is way too normal/attractive here. In almost all cases where wahmen offer to hook you up with a friend/relative, said relative looks like something that would put Moby Dick and Frankenstein’s love child to shame.
[–]743744715 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Possibly on the spectrum 😉
[–]MasterChris7252 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
More like he made the decision to knock up some woman and he happened to be lucky enough to receive custody over their children. Dealing with that disaster he learns his lesson.
[–]CreativeThought882 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmao. I hope she was trying to intentionally insulting you instead of genuinely asking. Could you ever imagine a pedophile actually admitting it?
[–]treble-n-bass2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I get this all the time. It's like I'm a fucking lab experiment or something, they always try to dissect me. "WHY have you never been married? WHY??? You're 43 and you're not in a relationship?" Nope. No relationship, no kids, total freedom. I'm not a 'provider.' I don't have time for any bullshit in my life, thank you very fucking much.
[–]vinq_2 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
If they ask a questions like that just cut it short and say you gotta go, bye. Don't waste time with that shaming tactic.
[–]JayJayEcks0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup, this is me here.
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