Perspective on life

Copypastable · 2019-10-15T02:10:18+00:00

Love being alone is a learned behavior.

[deleted] · 2019-10-15T02:12:04+00:00

How do you guys deal with loneliness?
But I still can’t shake this feeling of wanting something. Thoughts?

That's normal, but it's not about being alone.

Most people fill that feeling of wanting something by having a girlfriend, a wife and then children. If you aren't going to take that route, then I suggest a hobby where you create something.

DangZagnut · 2019-10-15T02:14:01+00:00

Loneliness?

Are you aware you can have friends?

Are women the only creature that can make you "not lonely"?

If you're lonely, have you investigated why you feel that way?

Because you appear to feel you're lacking something. How much of that is reality vs. social programming/fantasy fulfillment/unrealistic expectations?

You're under stress. So you're feeling, if I may be blunt, mommy issues. You think some random human on Earth, who has a wet gash between their legs, gives a shit?

Some random chick isn't mommy. She doesn't exist to make you feel better about your life decisions, and you damn well know she won't give a shit.

If you'd never been exposed to it, you wouldn't even think about it. It's just like if people had been giving you little tastes of heroin all your life, you're going to crave heroin.

Have you really written down precisely what spending money on a woman is going to do for you? That isn't what a mommy would give you?

Also write down why a woman should care to do that for you? What are you bringing to the table?

betterforitall · 2019-10-15T02:26:18+00:00

Humans are social animals, so what you're feeling is absolutely normal. The problem is that this isn't an era when you can enjoy companionship without tremendous risk.

It's something you have to come to terms with no different than if you were experiencing hardship during a time of war.

It's one of those "life isn't fair" things that you'll have to get used to. Either that or go out and risk getting burned.

The burn could take decades, destroy everything you worked for during those decades, and leave you wondering who that person was that you spent twenty years with, or you may beat the odds with a unicorn.

APHAbaghodler · 2019-10-15T02:45:48+00:00

Thinking with your little head most likely... go get an escort or just jerk off.. you'll feel normal after. Trust me.

thedukeinc · 2019-10-15T04:17:30+00:00

I recommend you to read a book “Why Buddhism is true”

Answer me this question: in a typical week how much time do like spending time with yourself or you are busy with your work and how much time do you feel lonely?

I myself am perfectly fine being by myself 95% of time. For the 5% of time when I do feel lonely

So I make the same mistake of finding/going on dates and paying for everything in hopes of getting some of that.. I try very hard, but always wound up empty handed.. it suddenly dawned on me.. it doesn’t matter. I am definitely not a chad, I am not a sucker to get into relationships or marriage. Women see this through me and thankfully I tend to drive them away.

the book i mentioned why Buddhism is true .. it really is a game changer. It is about mindfulness, achieving different stages of it through meditation

Have you tried volunteering at your local soup kitchen or animal shelter? Keep making yourself better by working out, spending time on your interests Don’t spend a lot of idle time at home by yourself. Try joining meetup groups Try learning a language. Very helpful if you eventually like to travel. I recommend Spanish if you already don’t know it

Title	Perspective on life
Author	hmario13
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	October 15, 2019 1:59 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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