Please help me

otakuzod · 2020-11-15T03:42:52+00:00

This is advice you'll appreciate down the line, probably not as much today. Do not shit where you eat, do not dip your pen in company ink. No good comes of that.

ProcedurallyCreated · 2020-11-15T03:17:37+00:00

You need more experience with women to cure that disease. Just don't get a sexual harassment complain and you will be fine.

gentle_lemon · 2020-11-15T03:14:47+00:00

Probably the best way to do this is to just talk to her. She'll probably come across as vapid and annoying, and you'll realize that even if you things in common, you don't want anything to do with her. Her only value to you is what you've imagine it to be.

CerebralEdge · 2020-11-15T06:23:07+00:00

What you can do is just crush out a sweet workout 3-5 times a week and within 3-4months you’ll start attracting hotter ones

l0g1cm4rt · 2020-11-15T09:54:23+00:00

Remind yourself of two points:

[i] She's never yours, it's just your turn.
[ii] Someone somewhere has already had enough of her shit.

Foodcoupon10 · 2020-11-15T08:49:57+00:00

Do not get your meat from the same place you get your bread friend. You dig? Same goes for fishing off the company pier. Or dipping your pen in company ink. Old euphemisms. But still hold true, now more than ever.

devenstackz2Q · 2020-11-15T12:04:25+00:00

Know that there are a lot of guys that fucked her before you and many guys that will fuck her after you.

But even if. i have seen many posts on so called virgins going off and fucking bikers or having sex in the car after they had a mini break up with their main boyfriend simp that didn't get anything because they were waiting for marriage. So basically they had a mini break up for a few weeks when they fucked a a random biker... While her boyfriend that they have a bond together... Didn't get anything for years.

Which goes to show female nature dopamine>oxytocin

Meaning they would rather have an existing experience than having a monogamous safe good and loving relationship.

If these examples aren't taken as evidence you can see statistics in India that show that 70% of women that cheated admitted that they cheated because they were bored and i am telling you probably the rest too but they tryied to rationalize it with something else.

All your thoughts about her are just illusions don't let pleasure and instincts cloud your judgment.

bvncgfhjtyru5678 · 2020-11-15T11:29:15+00:00

Unfortunately the only cure for oneitis is another woman to obsess over (kind of)...... I am guessing you are pretty young. The whole oneitis thing will probably end by the time you hit 30.

Understand it is all hormonal/biological. Your lizard brain wants you to reproduce with your oneitis and will torture the shit out of you to make it happen. It is a primal survival instinct that is hard to shake. Your lizard brain is fooling you into a scarcity mindset (as if that female was one of the last on earth) It is all in your mind though, just be strong a work past it.

Lizard brain*" refers to the oldest part of the* brain*, the* brain stem, responsible for primitive survival instincts such as aggression and fear ("flight or fight"), whereas the limbic system is responsible for, among other things, our emotional bonding to other creatures--other humans such as family members and friends.

Remember, your oneitis has probably been ran through, has several STDs and is not worth any of the thought you give her.

FanofLemmy · 2020-11-15T21:51:37+00:00

Shes fucking everyone but you, taking cumshot after cumshot, bathing in the semen of every man except you. Gangbangs, trains, getting pissed and shit on. She loves dick, just not yours.

Think about that. Internalize it. Move on.

Might be a little harsh but you need slap to think right. I do the same thing when it happens to me.

Stay strong!

civcinco · 2020-11-15T06:21:27+00:00

There was a movie about these married men that got a free pass and one guy picks up a chick at the club and takes her to the hotel and they are talking in the bathroom and she is sitting on the bathtub and sneezes annnnddd projectile shits onto the bathroom wall. Yea thats your oneits from work. Think about that everytime you see her.

ResidentTruck · 2020-11-15T09:59:33+00:00

Just imagine her fifty pounds heavier, buying the newest iphone with the money that's supposed to go to the kids you don't ever get to see and then using it to call up the latest chad or tyrone to pump and dump her so she can unleash a stream of trailer-trash invective on them so vile it would make Eminem blush.

If that doesn't work, go rub one out to your favorite bit of porn and then focus on your actual work.

If that doesn't work, by all means go out and bang some other girls. At some point (hopefully without it taking expensive government intervention of some type) you'll arrive at a visceral understanding of AWALT.

DarthCallidous · 2020-11-15T04:53:12+00:00

Look up the percentage of women that cheat and screw men over in divorce. That'll clear your head.

well-i · 2020-11-15T07:30:09+00:00

Your dick thinking right now. Go out and sleep with a couple bitches and you'll slowly get over her

vomGrossenFluss · 2020-11-15T19:43:39+00:00

At the workplace... problems incoming.

Search for any girl, anywhere, but not at the workplace.

Occasion-Mental · 2020-11-15T06:49:34+00:00

Do not my friend, shit where you eat....some random can just call you a creep, at work she can have HR tear your balls off. I have never in 40 years of working met a male HR manager...all women....so unless you have proof of doing nothing wrong, you will not be believed.

ramzito13 · 2020-11-15T16:30:03+00:00

Don’t shit where you eat. Dating/flirting with a coworker can only bring you problems and eventually get you fired. How would you feel being deprived of your income from one day to another?

ThotQuestion · 2020-11-16T14:36:05+00:00

Do absolutely anything with her other than fuck her.

Good, you've seen her vapid bullshit and got tired of it in minutes?

Now go off on your own and have a coom, come back now that you don't even want sex and face that vapidness again.

That is a female over 99% of the time. Were those few seconds of pleasure worth months, years, or a lifetime of pain?

Title	Please help me
Author	AddressUnable
Upvotes	15
Comments	22
Date	November 15, 2020 3:08 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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