Question: With ladies...

DangZagnut · 2019-10-15T01:20:21+00:00

The woman is irrelevant, it doesn't matter if she's a virgin, a whore, a slut, a nun, Amish, or anything else.

The gynocentric culture and legal system means you'll get screwed the second she changes her mind about what she wants.

She can be the most perfect woman in the world, but life is long, and people change their minds, and usually when it's the worst possible time for you.

Does it mean she'll pull the pin on that grenade? No. Does it mean the grenade is guaranteed to explode when the pin is pulled? Absolutely.

So it comes down to risk assessment and risk management.

You control your life, until you bring someone else in where the entire planet is tilted to her side and not yours.

But you do you. Only you can know what the right decision is. And there is no hope. Hope is for children and retards. There's only reality. It doesn't matter what she may choose to do, only what she can do.

I mean, go hand a 6 year old a loaded handgun. Assume nothing bad will happen. Maybe they'll do nothing, maybe they'll do something. Who knows?

Relationships take 80 hours of work a week, and that is entirely on you. She has to do nothing but exist, because everything is tilted her way. Hold all the frame and hit the gym all you want. Her opinion is all that matters legally and socially.

hypergamous · 2019-10-15T01:40:37+00:00

Hope left? No, hope has left the building. You are picking the least amount of problems and promiscuity from the left overs of her "best years".

There is no incentive to be loyal or grow with you,when there is always another "man" willing to grab a falling knife.

thathikingguy · 2019-10-15T03:09:44+00:00

The true joy in life comes from your own internal happiness and accomplishment. From facing natural challenges and overcoming them. Beer is pretty good too LOL

FoxtrotUniformDelta · 2019-10-15T01:42:45+00:00

Focus on you. Not women.

Don't validate yourself by the woman you have, or do it so others will validate you based on the standard of your partner.

Be more than that.

Copypastable · 2019-10-15T01:02:36+00:00

It is extremely rare to find a girl who was raised alright. And if the father isn't involved in the vetting process, she likely needs to have some sort of mental illness in order to have a sliver of logic.

There may be damaged girls out there that can be remolded, but once you stop the active training (i.e., leaving her alone), they may go back to their old ways.

So while it's possible, it's either hitting the lottery or taking on a 2nd and 3rd job. But whatever way it goes, she's with you for what you provide not who you are.

[deleted] · 2019-10-15T02:22:05+00:00

Don't let your fairly air-quote "excessive" air-quote "free-will" make you misconceptualize yourself with an air-quote "non-NPC". That ENTIRE ridiculous light break that you call air-quote "Self / Ego / Consciousness" is PRECISELY, STATISTICALLY & ONTOLOGICALLY the same existential joke that you call NPC. You're exactly like them yourself, just a more spiced-up playful configuration of that thought-bot shit that they are. They're deliberately rendered dumber than you for systemic equilibrial purposes. They can outsmart you any time necessary. you're welcome btw for a billion dollar worth o comment.

PrinceRaj53 · 2019-10-15T04:35:17+00:00

Can you change the biological and psychological nature of women by "hoping" she is "not like that"? No.

Next.

Even if you find the "perfect woman" in the world (who does not exist in the first place, mind you), won't she have the same nature in her? Of course she will.

Being "good/bad" does not have anything to do with how her nature is. Because "being good" does not magically rewrite her biology, does it?

Its not about the woman. She is irrelevant in the relationship because all she has to do is to exist , and all benefits will be on her side, like it or not. Its about the fucking coin flip of a nature that she has, which can and certainly will fuck you up in the worst possible way. And guess what? You will be a vulnerable prey at that time.

As u/DangZagnut said, it does not matter whether she is a virgin, a slut or anything else. She is a woman first who has the same evolutionary nature as the others, remember that.

I am adding another comment of mine here to explain my point further.

https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/dffnss/comment/f32qjb6

RedCBR900 · 2019-10-15T12:04:48+00:00

the light is the immense peace you feel when you finally understand the woman you want does not exist at all. It means you're not missing out, and what you have is all there is.

BlackPillPusher · 2019-10-15T12:37:15+00:00

If you think no sex is frustrating just wait until you get falsely accused of any sex crime, put on child support, get an STD or waste money on foodie calls without getting any sex at all, which will inevitably happen if you keep playing around with that shit.

SeekerAllFather · 2019-10-15T06:26:23+00:00

Go see and find out

MrMagtow · 2019-10-15T08:38:11+00:00

You need to read everything on the side-bar to improve your understanding Mr. Blue Pill.

Metalcrazyx · 2019-10-16T12:24:58+00:00

Hope is an illusion. There is only knowledge. AWALT

Title	Question: With ladies...
Author	purplebank
Upvotes	7
Comments	17
Date	October 15, 2019 12:50 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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