Realization I’m simping

Dadeh · 2019-06-06T00:32:10+00:00

Relationships don't improve after high school. Typically the attitude, entitlement, and personality they have in high school is what they carry for the rest of their lives. Maybe gaining more entitlement and attitude than personality.

You already know what's right, you've already said it. Go see your friends game, once you put your friend above her, you'll see her true colors. Of course coming here means you already know how it's going to go, how she'll withhold sex, affection, and punish you like a small child for disobeying her wants.

You are a young man, we don't expect you to have it all figured out but considering you've had an epiphany of some sort in your car while waiting puts you leagues above most simps.

You can still change this around, handcraft yourself into something more than a simp. You can finally break free from the pussy chains that bind you and be happier by doing so.

You got this man, women are a dime a dozen, especially at your age.

Even if you don't decide to go your own way, at least decide to finally put your happiness above any woman you decide to date.

As for us? Non serviam

Astral-Projector · 2019-06-06T00:44:40+00:00

Lol, women. Half of the population in the world are women. Why even care about one? Fuck them all.

GestapoMexican · 2019-06-06T01:15:23+00:00

GET YOUR ASS TO THAT GAME!!!!

user_miki · 2019-06-06T01:08:03+00:00

Put yourself first ALWAYS,have some introspection frequently, especially when taking decisions.If then you came to the conclusion you are not first or is not in your best interest, walk away or change your behavior.

oliver_21 · 2019-06-06T01:22:08+00:00

"You can determine a man's mental health by his ability to tell a woman NO."

Patient_The_Clown · 2019-06-06T00:54:17+00:00

I never got any (good) action in Highschool. So when I arrived at college, losing my virginity was NO. 1 priority for me. I made-out with some questionable slags and finally got my dick wet, and my response was: "is this it?"

Did I learn my lesson? No. I simped HARD and LONG. I pined for girls. I showed up at my co-worker's house at 3 am, pounded on her door - ready to profess my undying devotion. She would always flirt at work. She was smoking hot, black hair/blue eyes and Tig Ol Biddies! She was my muthafuckin' MUSE. But when I arrived at her house on that fateful night, she was in her bedroom with her Ex-Fiance (the one who she always complained about).

Did I learn my lesson? Fuck no. I made ONLY female friends because I grew-up only with my father (my mother left him when I was young and was living all over the world doing her feminist schtick). I fell in love with EACH female friend. I was Friendzone before I even KNEW the term. I thought something was dangerously wrong with me because, in my mind, if we were such great friends why couldn't we add sex to the mix?

I slept with all the wrong girls. Rainbow-haired bitches. Orca-Fat bitches. Meth-ass skinny bitches. Lesbians. It didn't fucking matter because I had no SPINE and no SELF-WORTH.

Did I learn my lesson? Hell to the No, no, no. Got out of college, fell in love with a Punk Rock Girl. Drama, my dudes. Cheated on her with a crazy bitch (who probably just wanted to fuck my shit up). I've moved in with girls. I was Captain-Save-a-Ho when they "had nowhere to go." Dumb. And I got jaded. Started to be an asshole and pull even more pussy, but something didn't feel right at all.

Did I learn my lesson? Nope. Started dating a girl in another city, visited her every weekend. She was flaky af, dumb, superficial, and frankly boring. One time, I realized I would rather play Skyrim than go down there - said I was "sick," and thought: "well, that's that - free weekend!" BIG MISTAKE. She drove all the way the fuck to my house, roommate opens the door, and there I am - geeking out on Skyrim, high as an albatross. The look on her face was great...but my weekend was toast.

Did I learn my lesson? Not really. Moved away from that old town. Kept a low profile. Older now, smarter. Start making money. Start making art again. Get confident. Still can dance. BIG MISTAKE. Post-wall single mom comes on strong, gets me when I'm drunk. Wake up the next day and her FIVE FUCKING KIDS are there. Nope the fuck out of that.

Did I learn - motherfucker, you get it by now! The last one, I met her at a NYE party. Get drunk - still a muthafuckin' dancer and plus they like my singing/I know all the words. BIG MISTAKE. Fuck another post-wall bitch (no kids this time). One day, on a "date" she starts raising her voice, talking about "metoo" and "men need to learn xyz," all this in a public place. I say to her "nay!" (Paraphrasing, but you get the idea). Realize that even in the middle of nowhere Feminist Witches will BURN YOUR SHIT TO THE GROUND. I broke up with her - used my classic - "yeah, yeah, I'm an asshole, now leave me da fuq alone."

Did I learn my lesson? YES, I did.

TL;DR: It only took me twenty-five years to learn that bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks. Should've just listened to the damn song.

Don't put up with any female's bullshit. She's lucky to see YOU, not the other way around. Don't get ANY of them pregnant (I didn't and it has made ALL the difference). When she starts her drama bullshit, ghost on her ass. ALWAYS.

I'm MonkMode though. Never caught no bullshit and I never intend to. Sex ain't nothing if you ain't making little humans, and the government is just gonna take 'em away anyway.

EDIT: spelling and a parenthesis

FonzieBarbarino · 2019-06-06T01:41:58+00:00

A woman should never be wasteful of a man's time. It is too precious to be wasted.

Maximum_Afternoon · 2019-06-06T01:49:36+00:00

The food thing is you noticed.

Hopefully in time to fix it. 👍

figyg · 2019-06-06T04:52:20+00:00

It's a slippery slope. It happens to the best of us.

But your instincts were right and you caught yourself.

Just keep doing what you're doing.

No need to burn any bridges (if you enjoy fucking this one)

[deleted] · 2019-06-06T00:20:19+00:00

No one in this life will ever care about you or your struggles as much as you do. You don't owe anybody anything. Act accordingly

isjustathrowawayokay · 2019-06-06T00:23:06+00:00

Hmm.... well.. honestly? You're right on the money that you're simping, and you should be glad that you're able to self reflect and realise this. In future prioritise doing whats important to you, and honestly supporting your friends (especially when it's so important) is something that stands the test of time. If she bitches, tell her to get an uber and respect you living your life. -- I will add that this is mgtow. We're guys who no longer seek relationships so really, mate, weigh up whether having her in your life is a positive or negative, and then take it from there. No judgement either way. Good luck.

[deleted] · 2019-06-06T00:27:44+00:00

No one in this life will ever care about you or your struggles as much as you do. You don't owe anybody anything. Act accordingly

[deleted] · 2019-06-06T00:46:50+00:00

I think you need to listen to the Alpha Male Strategies (I know, that title makes me cringe too) podcast and take some pages from that. It helps keep you in the mindset of striving to be the best version of yourself that you can be and living your own life over simping for pussy. Shit I wish I had heard in high school and my 20’s. The older you get, the more you’ll realize that chicks are only loyal to one thing — status — and that there’s always a better girl so they’re bad investments of time and money. It’s better to just have a few cool girls on roto and do your own thing; relationships aren’t for us, it’s for them, we’re just indoctrinated and brainwashed into thinking it does anything for us that we can’t get being single.

[deleted] · 2019-06-06T02:45:14+00:00

I was never in a relationship until I turned 31 and quickly ended that shit. I thought I was missing a lot and of course pressure form friends to date. I can tell you with certainty, you will achieved a lot more in life if you stay single because you end up focusing on yourself

theanswerisinthedata · 2019-06-06T03:37:22+00:00

One thing I have learned is that you need to make them do the work. Don’t go to her, make her come to you. Don’t call her, make her call you. Call her out on her bullshit. Tell her to shut up sometimes. When she starts a fight or drama don’t engage, tell her to leave or tell her to come back when she stops being a bitch. If they put in the work and listen to your direction she is still engaged. She is focused on you and respects you.

Women, young women in particular, LOVE drama. They think about their social life WAY more than men and analyze the fuck out of it. If there isn’t drama someone in their circle will stir something up. One of the reasons women love the ‘bad boy’ is because they are hard to wrangle and unpredictable so it keeps her on her toes (drama). The nice guys are just to amiable and predictable. [That is my little side rant]

kissmyfast · 2019-06-06T04:16:19+00:00

Ive been out of highschool for awhile now 22, dating doesnt get any better. I use to be like how you are feeling. You tend to start picking up on things when dating or talking to a female.

You come first playa, never give yourself fully to a girl (time or money) if she wants to hang out with you. You should be her priority, not her being yours. Bros before hoes. If she asks why u ditched her, tell her straight up "you took to long." But if you feeling conflicted, then thats clear sign she aint worth your time pimp, go do whatever you wanna do, dont give a fuck how she feels.

Alot of simps get it twisted by worrying to much for her if she is interested, how she feels, etc. You shouldn't even give a fuck how she feels or what she doing or whatever else has to do with her. Because honestly in her own head she doesnt even know wtf is going or what she wants. Females know how to play the game. As majority would say best option is to not even play the game.

When you realize it being single you can focus more on yourself, thats what i been doing when i realized it at age 20, im now starting in my career, driving my dream car and taking care of my body going to the gym, and girls have been throwing themselves out to me more then before

LotBuilder · 2019-06-06T04:29:31+00:00

My advice is to always do what you want to do. Girls will come along for the ride or not.., either way WGAF? The more you do your thing the more girls will chase you instead of the other way around.

f-u-c-c-boi · 2019-06-06T05:59:35+00:00

Give us an update, bro! What'd you end up doing? Fingers crossed it ended with you celebrating your boys and their win, and the THOT out there in the rain.

shatterthecrystal63 · 2019-06-06T17:09:45+00:00

Dump her ass.

That is all.

Title	Realization I’m simping
Author	spartandude5
Upvotes	59
Comments	20
Date	June 6, 2019 12:15 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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