Romantic relationships suck ass

scarredlife

February 23, 2016

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Title	Romantic relationships suck ass
Author	scarredlife
Upvotes	25
Comments	25
Date	February 23, 2016 5:23 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/477n7k/romantic_relationships_suck_ass/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/romantic-relationships-suck-ass.638049 https://theredarchive.com/post/638049

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[–]scarredlife[S] 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Please define what a "woman going her own way" is.

Through endless discussions most mgtows came to the conclusion that All Women Are Like That because of their biology and also that men are disposable, which is backed up by logical facts and critial, unpleasant thinking (hence the red pill matrix analogy). The reason why you see women behaving differently is mostly because they are born actors and know how to behave to get what they want until they can show their true face one day. Believing in unicorns doesn't make them real and believing that you need a woman to feel complete shows that you're not ready to go your own way.

And please stick your anti-male shaming tactics "you're just whining, man up already"-bullshit back inside your ass. Some of us are in the anger stage and we generally absolutely don't tolerate it when some random white knight spreads misandry in this sub. The shit some of us experienced is a legit reason to vent and feel angry. You can't do that anywhere else, prove me wrong. Men need to feel a sense of brotherhood and need a place to express their anger. There are very few male-friendly spaces left on this planet.

[–]farfennugen0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Woman going her own way just means she isn't tied to any identity, is a free thinker, takes personal responsibility, and doesn't align her problems with some concept like "the patriarchy" (similar to what some do here).

We should feel angry that there is a skewed balance and we lose half our shit because women work the system that is so against men. But the assertion all women carry this quality is childish, illogical, and at odds with statistics. All women? 100%? It's just improbable. Many in the US? 70% I would argue that is likely a yes. That is why this subreddit exists. But get real dude, it can't be 100%; nothing is 100%.

I don't believe I need a woman. That's part of being alone. But what is wrong with dating if I am still simply going my own way? There is no harm in using this subreddit as a gauge for what to avoid in women either. Peoples' stories here show what to avoid.

There is no anti-male shaming here. It's not about whether you are male, it's about taking responsibility and dealing with your cards. You are accusing me of anti-male shaming and misandry. That's literally the argument feminazis put forth, just replace the two accusations with slut-shaming and misogyny. You aren't solving shit nor do you have a novel position; what you are preaching is the same thing as feminism from the opposite end of the spectrum. That and I said nothing against males, I just said some women can be OK.

I totally agree with your last point about male safe spaces, but we should NOT make it like feminism where it just turns into a speech police factory.

No wonder Rob Fedders no longer wants anything to do with the phrase MGTOW. Shouldn't have given this shit a chance

[–]scarredlife[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

But what is wrong with dating if I am still simply going my own way?

Nothing, do what you want to do. Some of us are still dating but others don't, that's fine. My personal opinion is that dating is annoying as hell and limiting my freedom.

Good luck finding a woman who won't abuse the system out of empathy for men. You'll need it, mr. gambler. The problem isn't feminism, it has and always will be gynocentrism. You must be thinking that other guys are just unlucky/stupid and that the women you're dating are different. Chances are very high that you'll experience a rude awakening one day. Best wishes.

Try the MRA subreddit, it's infested by women who are interested in male issues and the current state of society without having ulterior motives at all hehehe ;)

don't get stuck in ruts people on this subreddit vividly describe, and use conviction

NOT make it like feminism where it just turns into a speech police factory.

What did you expect when you stuck your dick in a hornet nest? Did you expect a pet on the back after coming to this sub and taking a shit on our core principles by telling people that there's a special someone who a freedom loving man needs like a pimple on the ass? All mgtows know that there isn't a special woman who's waiting for you and loving you unconditionally.

You aren't solving shit [by speaking out against me calling you whiners]

You're right, it seems I should've just saved my and your time by not responding to your buthurt anti-mgtow testimonial. All the best.

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