This has zero to do with women. It's all about your personal legacy/memory/influence, etc.

Many of us are the first among our family/friends/small, ethnic community to accomplish some feat (educational level, professional position, and the likes).

Unbeknownst to us, others emulate our actions and want to be like us. This covers how we deal with money, women, goals, our values, how we speak, how we carry ourselves, and more.

Be the sharpest mother fucker around and let your reputation precede you.

Raise the bar.