This is related to a post where a guy complained his wife just wanted to sleep during a nice vacation. This lead to speculation that his wife likes sex just not with him. For you guys who were married to women who weren't interested in sex with you but still wanted sex from other men, I want to know. What was the defining moment that red pilled you into realizing this, and how did she react when you confronted her? Did she believe you would have the backbone to leave her? How did she react when you did leave?