Shaking off anger - tipps needed

XavierMalory · 2019-02-04T17:01:35+00:00

Most of the time we don't think about the consequences of our actions when we're really angry.

Think about what would happen if you tried your revenge plan and she caught on. She could wreck you, bro. I mean, destroy your career, your life at that school, everything.

Then ask yourself if she's worth that space in your head. She's living there right now, rent free, because you're angry.

Take solace in the fact that karma's a bigger bitch than she'll ever be, and she WILL get her come-uppins eventually. You may not be around to see it, but when you don't care about seeing it, that's when you're truly free.

justtenofusinhere · 2019-02-04T17:16:34+00:00

Anger is a protective emotion. There is also a reason it is often described as burning. You are angry because she wounded you and the anger is a protective emotion, she is dangerous so you are gearing up to fight.

Us the burning aspect of your anger. Let it cauterize your wounds and burn out your weakness. Anything impure dropped into the fire will burn off, leaving only the strong behind.

Embrace the anger, use it, burn off all thing unnecessary and become leaner and stronger .

TVTestPattern · 2019-02-04T17:37:30+00:00

Next time that happens remember that there are over 90K guys like me judging you for it and shaking our heads.

You are granting her power over you my dude.

Astral-Projector · 2019-02-04T16:29:09+00:00

Accept The AWALT. You have a good sidebar here in the sub for all female nature related stuffs.

NathanHollister · 2019-02-04T16:48:13+00:00

Have a good fap and then ask yourself whether she really matters. Post nut clarity my man

mgtow-zen · 2019-02-04T17:00:21+00:00

Try to find the underlying emotion behind the anger. Its almost never anger, it's usually some form of fear. Is there something about her that scares you?

You are in an environment that is undoubtably biased against you, if she makes her case publicly, you will lose. No matter what, in the climate you are in, she will probably win.

I can imagine that would make a guy feel powerless, scared and alienated or perhaps unworthy or just plain unwanted. Especially, (and here is the key) if you believe this environment creates you.

Spend some time in the woods, away from everyone. Remind yourself frequently that she is not your creator, the university is not your creator, none of this is your creator.

We always feel like we are the product of our surroundings, we can't help it. But it helps to be aware of it. So it's a good idea to escape, even if it's just with headphones and closed eyes.

j-mgtow · 2019-02-04T17:28:51+00:00

I've been there, bud. Embraced by seething rage for someone who took advantage of me.

What helped me move on, was acknowledging that I wasn't as upset with the woman in question, but with myself for being so stupid.

That small shift gave me the clarity I needed to GMOW and become a better person, chasing after my dreams.

Yeah, they got one over on us, but only one. There will be no next time.

rogerhuston · 2019-02-04T17:59:30+00:00

The best thing you could do is ghost her. If she tries talking to you on campus pretend you don't even see her. And most importantly, never look back. You'll be better off and an added bonus is bitches hate being ghosted.

markentingh · 2019-02-04T18:22:24+00:00

Just treat her like trash. Don't hold back. Do what feels natural to you.

Nis_law · 2019-02-04T18:29:16+00:00

Only time will heal this anger. Try meditating.

Title	Shaking off anger - tipps needed
Author	wobushizhende
Upvotes	7
Comments	11
Date	February 4, 2019 4:24 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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