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[–][deleted] 68 points69 points70 points 7 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
He's going to get lots of very "valuable" advice on that sub except this line which will get you banned there:
Past benefit provided by the male does not provide for continued or future association. Any agreement where the male provides a current benefit in return for a promise of future association is null and void as soon as the male has provided the benefit.
[–]taxandstuff5 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=90mFGwYJ0s8
[–]DangZagnut37 points38 points39 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
God forbid she get a job or spend her money. That's what simps are for.
[–]PrideTrooperBR25 points26 points27 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just use feminism rethoric: her body, her choice and her debt.
[–]back2dahfuture12 points13 points14 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
simps gon’ simp
[–]boisdevie 12 points13 points14 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Of course he should pay off her debts. It's the chivalrous thing to do of course. And he should let her fuck whoever she wants because she's so busy 'finding herself'. And finally, if she wants to fuck him with a strap-on then it's only fair and reasonable.
[–]NickTesla20188 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just step in front of a bus already and get it over with. You're toast.
[–]TheDevilsAdvokaat6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hell no.
I'm an aussie living in China. Met a british guy who is married with 2 kids; oldest was 4 youngest was 6 months.
He told me about his wife (who has model-level looks) and how she had 15k of credit card debt before they got married. He paid it off for her. (She smiled while he told this story.) Next year they are moving to the UK.
Good luck with that mate.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I work with a guy who paid off not one, but two ex wives student loans. And notice i said "ex" wives, they left shortly after
[–]Miruem2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sure, not like she is responsible for her own decisions pffff
[–]ValhallaWillCome2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Should I pay my girlfriends student loans?
This probably says it all.
[–]fasterfind2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
At that age, she's fucking a bunch of other guys anyway, or will be, and she'll say she's finding herself or some other bullshit. She'll flake on you. NEVER pay a woman's debts.
You could make it very clear that you'll pay a certain amount, monthly, as her sugar daddy. This involves copious amounts of sex work. She already loves you, or at least is cool with you. Make a simple contract. Hold that debt over her head, because she's going to flake on you later on anyway. The juice needs to be worth the squeeze.
[–]thequarenteenpill1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
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Hello all, I started dating my girlfriend in the middle of college and at this point we have been together for 6 years. We have gone from being a relatively casual relationship in college, to growing professionally and helping each other, to living in a city together and having our own place. We have lived together for 2.5 years at this point. For the last 3-4 years of being together I’ve realized that we will be together for a long time, but I’ve never felt like proposing, simply because either I thought we were too young or because it seemed like poor timing. Since we graduated college, I’ve gotten jobs that put me in the top 1-2% of earners in the US. My parents also paid for my college, so I really don’t have any costs outside of rent. Conversely, my girlfriend’s parents did not pay for her college and she earns something much more in-line with what people in their mid-20s earn. Over time, I’ve covered some of her share for trips, restaurants, etc, as I don’t want her experiences to be limited by her net wealth or income, and I don’t want her to be burdened by her student debt. I don’t think it’s fair and just from a practical standpoint, i can’t expect her to pay half of the cost of going to on an expensive trip, etc. She has not once in our 6 years asked for me to pay and finds it a point of pride that she paid for college entirely out of pocket. Recently, I got a job offer in a new country. We’ve been considering moving there for a while and after some discussion, we decided that I should accept the offer and we would move together. However, because of the industry she is in, the wages she would receive in this new place are ~25% lower than where we currently are. Between food, rent, student loan payments, etc, this is a huge constraint on her budget. Ever since I’ve gotten a big bonus as part of my job, I’ve wanted to spend part of it on paying off a big part of her debt. Ever since we’ve decided move to this new country, I’ve wanted to do it even more so. To me, this amount would decrease my net wealth by ~15%, but wipe out ~2/3 of her student debt. For reference, my signing bonus for this new job is, post-tax, roughly how much I would pay down her debt by. It’s roughly 1/10 of how much I expect to make pre-tax for the next year. I really want to do it, as she has decided to take on this risk with me that I initiated but is somewhat getting the raw end of the deal. If I do this, I would of course do no strings attached, no future repayment, even if she breaks up with me, etc. Is this something I should do? Will this significantly change our relationship? Are there any dangers I am not thinking of? TLDR: I want to pay off the majority of my girlfriend’s student debt, which to me will not be a huge impact on my net wealth. Is this something I should do?
Hello all,
I started dating my girlfriend in the middle of college and at this point we have been together for 6 years. We have gone from being a relatively casual relationship in college, to growing professionally and helping each other, to living in a city together and having our own place. We have lived together for 2.5 years at this point. For the last 3-4 years of being together I’ve realized that we will be together for a long time, but I’ve never felt like proposing, simply because either I thought we were too young or because it seemed like poor timing.
Since we graduated college, I’ve gotten jobs that put me in the top 1-2% of earners in the US. My parents also paid for my college, so I really don’t have any costs outside of rent. Conversely, my girlfriend’s parents did not pay for her college and she earns something much more in-line with what people in their mid-20s earn.
Over time, I’ve covered some of her share for trips, restaurants, etc, as I don’t want her experiences to be limited by her net wealth or income, and I don’t want her to be burdened by her student debt. I don’t think it’s fair and just from a practical standpoint, i can’t expect her to pay half of the cost of going to on an expensive trip, etc. She has not once in our 6 years asked for me to pay and finds it a point of pride that she paid for college entirely out of pocket.
Recently, I got a job offer in a new country. We’ve been considering moving there for a while and after some discussion, we decided that I should accept the offer and we would move together. However, because of the industry she is in, the wages she would receive in this new place are ~25% lower than where we currently are. Between food, rent, student loan payments, etc, this is a huge constraint on her budget.
Ever since I’ve gotten a big bonus as part of my job, I’ve wanted to spend part of it on paying off a big part of her debt. Ever since we’ve decided move to this new country, I’ve wanted to do it even more so. To me, this amount would decrease my net wealth by ~15%, but wipe out ~2/3 of her student debt. For reference, my signing bonus for this new job is, post-tax, roughly how much I would pay down her debt by. It’s roughly 1/10 of how much I expect to make pre-tax for the next year.
I really want to do it, as she has decided to take on this risk with me that I initiated but is somewhat getting the raw end of the deal. If I do this, I would of course do no strings attached, no future repayment, even if she breaks up with me, etc.
Is this something I should do? Will this significantly change our relationship? Are there any dangers I am not thinking of?
TLDR: I want to pay off the majority of my girlfriend’s student debt, which to me will not be a huge impact on my net wealth. Is this something I should do?
[–]BigGuysBlitz1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And it turns out his name is Hugh Jasshole if he does this.
[–]formerlydeaddd1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
NO.
[–]CaptainMGTOW0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fakin nooo!!!
[–]CiceroVoltaire0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, yes you should!
/s
they deserve each other
[–]witheringslights0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pay half. If she whines, dump her.
Or, you know bend over, accept her boyfriends penor whilst she laughs. Choices choices.
[–]NotMyWomen0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
FULL SIMP AHEAD, CAP’N!
[–]bt9990 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Got to give her credit for being patient. Just a few more months and she can divorce him.
[–]Drizzt1231 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I couldn't imagine how retarded you would have to be to do this.
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