I hope this doesnt come across wrong, but I'm a woman just perusing this subreddit as I'm curious about some of the thought process' men have, especially the men who choose to avoid women. Now I know you cant speak for everyone, but have any of you had a bad experience with women or in a relationship that has made you want to forgo the whole notion of 'true love' or dating? Or is it just that you have never had the desire to create a family or settle down?

I suppose I'm just looking for some insight into the choice to live this lifestyle.

Again, terribly sorry if this isnt allowed here, I'm just curious.