Something That Challenged You

drksouled · 2018-10-30T14:43:21+00:00

Walked away from a female who was not reciprocating interest but trying to keep me as an orbiter and tampon. I’m not full mgtow, yet, so this was a huge step for me as I’ve chased my whole life like a damn fool.

I don’t contact her but I also don’t not contact her if she contacts me. My attitude is I just don’t care either way. And holding to this mindframe has truly made me indifferent to the situation.

The amount of self respect I’ve salvaged has been huge, and it’s just growing. On my way for sure.

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2018-10-30T14:53:47+00:00

Not taking responsibility for my life. I was stuck in a victim mindset, the exact one mindset that now seems to be glorified, though I experienced it as the worst mindset ever, cause it makes people lazy and complacent in their own shit..

MXRNate77 · 2018-10-30T15:05:33+00:00

Got out of my last relationship as well as surviving a suicide attempt. I will be symptom free for one year on Nov 6. I finally took control of my mental health and held myself accountable where I could have played victim and blamed the world for my problems. It that year I have ditched 85lbs (350+ if you add my ex) as well as being promoted at my new job in 2 months after being fired by text message while I was in the hospital from my previous. The strength and focused I gained has helped me go full blown MGTOW. My doctors and therapist were so amazed by my progress they wanted me to help with prevention and peer support for others who are struggling. Men’s mental health has become a huge issue with me that I have no problem sharing my personal experience. I will eventually volunteer to help but I’m going to focus on helping men. It was not easy but I set goals and pushed myself and have become stronger mentally and physically. Next week I will celebrate the milestone in my own way.

2018-10-30T16:24:35+00:00

I think studying to work for the government was the most challenging thing I've ever done... At first I thought it was easy, damn I'm 3 years now studying everyday as hard as I can.

I had to learn self discipline to study every day for more than 8h/day, focus to avoid things that would make me waste precious time, I had to improve my nutricion because I was feeling I had not enough energy to keep going and I started going to the gym to relax after studies.

I'm a completely different man after starting thus project, I haven't finished yet but these habits will be with me when I move to other projects.

Also realising after mgtow that no one will actually help me, I'm a man, no one gives a damn unless I can provide smth for them. So I gotta look after myself developing new skills to be independent from other people and society and maybe go ghost...

coinstash · 2018-10-30T19:45:13+00:00

Hmmm, in that last year? I achieved the lifetime goal of becoming a millionaire.

Don't be tellin' no biatches that, I don't need the agro.

gaia2008 · 2018-10-30T15:44:50+00:00

Divorce,

gradstudentlaughing · 2018-10-30T17:31:55+00:00

Started my second year in grad school. I’ve been in school for quite awhile but this year really kicked it up a notch plus starting a new job in my chosen field. It’s been balls to the wall all year but I’ve found I can push myself harder than I thought I could. One more year like this and I’ll have my degree and then I start looking at certification testing.

sardoonoomsy · 2018-10-31T08:23:54+00:00

Finally making the decision to wean myself out of my marriage. I have a way to go yet re dealing with house, finances and the kids, but there's no going back. Gotta stay strong

Title	Something That Challenged You
Author	motionsrwhyk
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	October 30, 2018 2:21 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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