Fellas, I'm struggling hard as hell not getting back with my ex who I dated for 3 years. We split but we've been talking again and I feel like I'm getting sucked back in through her manipulation.

I genuinely love her but we split because:

  1. Our differences in views on marriage and children.

  2. A buddy found a tinder profile with her name and pic and age (she claims it's a catfish and I want soooooo fucking bad to believe her but chances are slim).

  3. We've been toxic for eachother before.

I know doing my own thing is probably the best thing for me but I really could use some help right now to keep me from giving into my emotions. This is rough. It can be advice, support, whatever.

Thanks y'all.