This guy is doomed.

ConstantChinner · 2018-09-04T18:01:30+00:00

Dumbest part of it was:

I trust her

strongandhappy · 2018-09-04T18:06:14+00:00

All relationships have low points. Just takes a moment of weakness with an interested Chad. Yeah, he's doomed.

RunawayGrain · 2018-09-04T18:13:27+00:00

She’s not a cheater for sure, she hangs out with me all the time and loves me a ton.

"We have a guy that's living with us named Chad that my wife knew in college. We're helping him get on his feet. I mean sure we haven't had sex in six months, I sleep in a separate room, and she shares the master bedroom with Chad, but she's not a cheater!"

They are all a close group of coworkers so it’s normal that they have group texts and what not.

"A couple have even spent the night over here with her and Chad. It's like a sleepover! Maybe one day I will get invited and I can bring the hot chocolate."

However, her male coworkers text her all the time.

"They have business meetings at all hours of the night, and she comes home sweaty and exhausted. My wife sure is dedicated to her work!"

She tells me and even shows me the texts (I don’t go snooping but I do communicate when I’m feeling a little insecure lol) and I know it’s all good.

"Just because she deletes half of the messages before I can see them doesn't mean she's a cheater!"

I don’t trust these other dudes and she’s really sweet and kind so she isn’t the type to be like “no fuck off”.

"Except every time I tried to get with her in college. She's such a kidder!"

I don’t want to show jealousy because that would upset her and make her feel like I don’t trust her or something.

"We've been married three wonderful years. If I keep getting used as a doormat, maybe my wife will touch my pee-pee one day."

bitter_samsara · 2018-09-04T18:20:26+00:00

Thanks all! I’m ugly!

I don't really have much of a reaction, but I just hope this is how this guy signs off all his correspondences.

JohnBravo9990 · 2018-09-04T18:31:39+00:00

Lmfao. He has already signaled to her that he is too weak to keep other men away.

Your typical liberal pansy-man on the fast-track to divorce rape.

Mora616 · 2018-09-04T18:36:25+00:00

"She is not a cheater for sure" Dear God man, she hangs out with you that much because she feels fucking guilty she is fucking chad after lunch, Tyrone after coffee break and Juan after hours.

And then a simp replies with: "keep treating her nice". Oh yeah you go ahead and do that. Poor blind bastard.

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2018-09-04T18:29:39+00:00

She may have chosen him ... for now.

She may be faithful ... for now.

Here’s the point of concern. Why isn’t she telling all the guys who she is not married to to BTFO? She isn’t protecting her relationship from an outside invasion. They have no business contacting her for reasons not directly work related.

She could be the closest thing to an AWALT there is and there is no way her husband can protect the relationship on his own. She is allowing this. As another comments pointed out, it only takes one moment of weakness on her part and this seemingly good man is going to be absolutely fucking destroyed.

scottishsnowboard666 · 2018-09-04T18:53:24+00:00

He is fucked!

mrk68 · 2018-09-04T20:24:48+00:00

If a man is going to date a woman, dating >8/10 is the WORST way to go. Its like parking a Ferrari at a liquor store and leaving the key on the dash.

Thedirtyscientist2 · 2018-09-04T20:36:04+00:00

Lmao that first comment though. "If she's gonna cheat there's nothing to be done so might as well not worry about it, you'd find out about it one day if she does." Who the fuck thinks like that and can live with themselves? What kind of thought process is that? It just doesn't compute for me.

writefromwork · 2018-09-04T22:34:50+00:00

Great title! Summarizes what will likely follow.

PopCultureMGTOW · 2018-09-04T20:10:09+00:00

That guy is going to be hit HARD when it all comes crashing down. For the time being, I'm just shaking my head over here.

WhistlingAlong · 2018-09-04T20:20:16+00:00

Finished

Im_Talking · 2018-09-04T23:39:43+00:00

Don't understand jealousy at all. I've never had a jealous bone in my body because it's a stupid emotion. If she goes, she goes. Nothing I can do. I can just be the best person I can and if that's not enough for anyone, then fuck'm.

TheMarvelousSchmuck · 2018-09-04T23:52:00+00:00

They are all a close group of coworkers so it’s normal that they have group texts and what not.

Sounds like he's trying to convince himself that it's normal, more than anything. Sums up most of this, actually.

However, her male coworkers text her all the time. She tells me and even shows me the texts (I don’t go snooping but I do communicate when I’m feeling a little insecure lol)

So first men are constantly texting her, and second she's showing you her text conversations on her terms? Yeah, I'm totally sure you're not getting the highly censored, highly edited version of events.

I trust her, I don’t trust these other dudes and she’s really sweet and kind so she isn’t the type to be like “no fuck off”.

This just baffles me. If you trust your wife, why wouldn't you trust her to tell someone to fuck off? Why be suspicious of other men? These two things don't match up.

I mean, unless they plan on dragging her into an alleyway and raping her, what are these guys going to do if she's "not the cheating type"? She says no, and they're out of options. That should be how it works. You shouldn't be worried about (non-criminal) men if you trust your wife, right? She's the gatekeeper, she gets to decide who she fucks.

Except he's still very much worried. So clearly, he doesn't actually believe, deep down, that his wife would never cheat. He's not just jealous, he's secretly worried that he married a whore (spoilers: he totally did).

Unless this man is one of those sad, deluded fools who honestly thinks that men can cast some kind of will-depriving spell over women, hypnotizing them to do things that they otherwise wouldn't do, then he should have no reason to be suspicious of his fellow men. Again, it sounds like he's trying to convince himself that his wife is not suspicious.

What do I do? She’s not a cheater for sure, she hangs out with me all the time and loves me a ton.

Then what's the problem? If she's not a cheater then there's nothing to worry about... unless... you don't actually believe that crock of shit. You do believe that crock of shit, don't you? Then what's the problem?

I don’t want to show jealousy because that would upset her and make her feel like I don’t trust her or something.

Oh heavens, wouldn't want to hold a vagina-haver accountable, now would we? After all, it's not like you both participated in some wacky ceremony where you made vows to each other to always stay faithful. That would just be the craziest darn thing, wouldn't it?

Thanks all! I’m ugly!

Thanks for saving me the trouble of insulting you, you fucking doormat. If your wife wasn't gargling Tyrone's loads before, she sure as hell will be with an attitude like that.

Damn, he reminds me of myself back before MGTOW. I'm not some towering pillar of unyielding confidence, but at least I have some fucking self-respect.

leering855 · 2018-09-05T00:29:27+00:00

Your hot wife is going to leave you without a doubt.... and you are just making it happen sooner with your insecurity and jealousy.... best advice is for you to dump her now.... why delay the inevitable...

SirGuileSir · 2018-09-05T01:46:23+00:00

He more or less deserves whatever occurs. He's standing on the tracks and there's a train coming straight at him. Or maybe the train's heading straight at her, and he's off the tracks? She'll be pulling the train cuz he got derailed? Prolly the most likely, right there.

GoodGuyMaike · 2018-09-05T03:09:19+00:00

Goddammit, she might have already cheated on the dude if what he said is correct; remember? He said he's ugly while the other male workers look more better than him so there's no chance she's not attracted to them.

AWALT.

throw_7 · 2018-09-05T03:10:45+00:00

Beware, the comments in that post are cancer.

Just know if she wanted to fuck some one else shes going to do it, so why even worry about it. If she does cheat, eventually you'll find out,

Eventually... Maybe... Someday?

ChenzaAtCourt · 2018-09-04T18:54:40+00:00

Doomed....DOOOOOOOMMED!

Title	This guy is doomed.
Author	charlesboymary
Upvotes	37
Comments	23
Date	September 4, 2018 5:59 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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