Using a throwaway, for obvious reasons.

(go to next paragraph to skip life story) I'm a long time lurker here but I'm also one of those married fags. I almost instantly regretted getting married. I was considering divorce not long after signing on the dotted line, but she ended up getting pregnant (mine). I was blue pilled back then and felt guilty about leaving so I tried to make it work. She treated me worse and worse as time went on. About a year later I was back to looking at an exit plan when she brought up the idea of having another kid. I said absolutely not. I found absolutely no joy in being a parent. It was downright fucking miserable. Well wouldn't you know it, she trick-fucked her birth control and ended up pregnant again. I told her I couldn't do it and if she decided to keep it, I would feel extremely disrespected and would probably look at leaving. She didn't give a single fuck and kept it. It's been almost 6 years now since we got married. I've been in constant turmoil between jobs, most recently decided to go to school full time and pay the bills with my GI bill. She treats me like her employee at this point. It literally feels like I work at my own house with the way she "asks" me to do things or do this and that with the kids that I didn't want in the first place. Completely wasting my valuable time. After finding MGTOW I had that red pill rage and completely emotionally checked out. Decided I was done sacrificing everything for this bitch. She hasn't taken too kindly to this new me and keeps hinting at divorce. Hints like "I'm gonna go file for divorce".

Both our names are on the house that we live in. I'm nervous about falling into the child support trap (when she eventually sues for divorce) that has destroyed so many men before. I technically don't have any income since I'm in school. But I've read that doesn't stop judges from fucking you anyway. Before I quit my previous job I made 60k, and my education would be completely derailed if that much was imputed on me.

I feel like I have a rare opportunity at this point. Between me and the wife we have about 50k saved up. I could pull out over 20k and just leave. But I have no idea where I would go or if that would just make everything worse down the road. It's hard to see your options when you're in the middle of it. I've tried looking up youtube videos to try and find some guidance but they're very vague.

What do you guys think?