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[–]Smoothtank14 points15 points16 points (10 children) | Copy Link
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[+]bitter_samsara [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
One observation worth keeping in mind: food service is one of the few where income is implicitly negotiated between her and the customer. And what do you know, this is the only setting where an attractive woman will act cutesy towards most male customers not matter how uninterested she is in them. Contrast that to almost any other service job where their income is not negotiated with the customer, i.e. clothes retail, customer service, etc. the cutesy act is practically nowhere to be found.
Why the contrast? Being cutesy is a dishonest manipulation strategy where the woman implies some kind of special interest in you, in order to extract as many resources as possible from a sucker while that's still an option. Is a dishonest charade worth ripping less? Well it is a mass delusion, so I would err against that. I would just give special consideration to the poor blokes who actually do hustle and are overlooked on tips because he can't bat his eyelashes at you.
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[+]bitter_samsara [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
that's exactly what I said, except to consider when a dude is hustling extra hard instead of when a chick is being cute. Did you even read my reply or is it just more important for you to some off as a self-righteous prick?
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Bro, I'm as MGTOW as you can get and this just seems like a dick move. I usually just tip 15-20% unless the service was extremely poor.
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