Turned down again

Fedor_Fedorov · 2019-08-18T07:40:13+00:00

Never date a woman with kids. Never never never.

Aposematicly · 2019-08-18T07:49:36+00:00

No single Mums, Never.

10 x 3 = 30 is a conservative number

Ask if her Anal Virginity is still available.

2019-08-18T07:40:45+00:00

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realChebz · 2019-08-18T07:51:34+00:00

Ugh you don't want to date her bud... The moment she mentioned kids you should have high tailed it out of there. You are trying to overcome social stereotypes of being a virgin, and you place your self worth in being with someone, just anyone... Even a fat single mother. You don't want to make this mistake. You don't want to end up paying for the rest of your life for kids that aren't yours. Forget what others think of you. Stop defining yourself by socially accepted norms. Go your own way, if it means being a virgin - so fucking what? You aren't missing anything.

What I would do if I were you, block her. Delete her number. Do NOT respond to any texts or calls. Do not try to explain to her anything. Move on and do something more productive with your time than dating single mothers.

As for being a virgin, go see an escort if it bothers you so much.

sauceyalpaca · 2019-08-18T07:52:30+00:00

You realize if she says 10 it's probably more like 40... You seem like the nice guy she wants to look after her kids after she slept around in her 20s

civcinco · 2019-08-18T07:53:56+00:00

10 guys is super low. 2 kids is a deal breaker for all men do not be fooled. Chunky is a deal breaker for me but to each his own

Now on being a virgin. Big deal you don't have to tell anyone anything.

Ody_ssey · 2019-08-18T08:02:44+00:00

They waste prime years of their life on riding Chads and Tyrone instead of building good career path. Once the wall emerges out of the fog, they find a nice guy to settle who worked hard for having a successful career and who never had much experience with women because of competitive career goals. "like you".

The only reason their lazy, incompetency and bad career choices don't bring them in poverty because court sides with them and grant tonnes of child support and alimony which is more than enough to feed the family of 5.

Just because you are a virgin, that doesn't mean you should think from your dick.

So she has 2 kids. Which I don’t really have a problem with.

This is what think from your dick means.

urbanphil0s0phy · 2019-08-18T07:45:35+00:00

So how were you turned down?

Anyway here's my thoughts on the matter:

She's nothing special, meaning she's just like every other chick out there. Opportunistic, shallow, probably rather unintelligent and extremely selfish. So don't have any high expectations. If you can handle fucking a chick with history (as a germaphobe I find it hard) then have fun with her if you want but don't invest emotionally because she's not worth it.

Basically if she's willing to cancel your V card then that's fine but she would be pretty low on my list of priorities.

user_miki · 2019-08-18T08:05:58+00:00

single mums?This is forbidden.Better be dead than that.

Mgtowindia0 · 2019-08-18T07:49:16+00:00

Whats wrong with this sub ? Dating women and bullshit ! Bro you go your own way by enjoying life yourself ! Why do you fall for these traps ?

tower-rounder · 2019-08-18T08:21:27+00:00

Dude, don't date a girl with kids. Plus that n count is too high anyway.

You're giving up your standards to be with her. You already day she's not your type looks wise, you have a problem with her having kids but you don't want to admit it. You have a problem with her n count. That's your own mind signalling the red flags to you. Listen to your mind.

I'm telling you right now you're not gonna get any prizes by sacrificing your self worth. Maybe in the past, but definitely not today.

And that virgin thing. Go spend money on hookers, sleep with them at least three times. Choose the ones you want and then come back to the sub and say of you feel the same.

Itsbbbitch · 2019-08-18T08:27:51+00:00

Ten is a really low number for them. She's definitely lying. Women never tell the true number especially not to guys they just met. You'd probably have to multiply that by 5 or more.

VOLK91P11 · 2019-08-18T08:41:01+00:00

you should see a hooker,that is for sex part of relationship,and to get over with virgin part... as for "romantic" part ,you are better off but for the sake of experience try one or two women but I think because of your thirst for companionship you will get hurt just too much and you will suffer even more than now...it is hard ...I think that real MGTOW must have experience with relationships and to be strong on your path you must experience female nature for a few times..for me 2 long term relationships were not enaugh I was beta simp at 32 I got in one more for 7 years and now things are clear for me...you just can't simply decide to be a MGTOW it is a process,painfull process...and I really think that you must get to a certain age to be able to pull this off,for me 35 was the barrier...I was simpin left and right..now I don't bother...I just smile at men who still bother and they even think they are better than me because they are in a relationship,you can't deal with the pressure of society if you are not fully developed person and older...in my country you are considered looser to be alone,but deep down they envy me,I live free,today is sunday everybody is dealing with nagging,I woke up,and enjoy silence,lift weights etc but if you didn't went trough process you will not be happy ,you just can't simply decide to be MGTOW,my advice is hooker to get one thing out of your mind and then at least two ugly women ,and why I say ugly,to not get to attached,because male nature is to get attached and you will suffer...and be prepared some women can pretend even for 2 years or more to show their real nature and personality...

martynhare · 2019-08-18T09:34:59+00:00

All you will find on Tinder and POF right now are single mothers, women with mental issues and thots who use it for ego-tripping - to put it simply, you’re looking at the mostly cursed female age range when you use those services at your current age. Instead. this is definitely the point in your life where you should be focusing on you at all times, aiming to maximise your wealth, health and happiness. If you focus on yourself rather than chasing after women, you’ll automatically win out over everyone else, women will try to pick you. Just refuse marriage, cohabitation and kids, that will keep you free of the child support and alimony traps.

Don’t go after single mothers unless they otherwise tick every other box (personality, intellect, education, aesthetics), if she isn’t MILF you do not want. Here’s why: Between the ages of 32 and 40, the fertility alarm will kick in for many women and there are plenty who have to very quickly choose between finding a nice, supportive partner to help them have kids or potentially end up childless for life. This is the point at which you have all the advantages provided you have a good income, at least average looks and some basic people skills. Those women will be desperate for you to impregnate them and all you have to do is use the head on your shoulders to avoid getting trapped.

Please consider avoiding traditional relationships and simply hire a hooker if you’re wanting to “lose it” though. It will be much better for you in the long run.

Title	Turned down again
Author	irish-guy5887
Upvotes	0
Comments	21
Date	August 18, 2019 7:36 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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