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[–]WrongTime0134 points35 points36 points 6 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link
I’m just gonna say this: I don’t feel bad for or pity people who deliberately get into bad relationships or talk about how much they miss an abusive partner.
Call me a dickhead for ‘not understanding their mental trauma’ but if you claim to be mentally defective over your relationship choice, you’re still wholeheartedly at fault when every single relationship backfires.
That’s like saying the emotionally troubled guy gets a pass for spitting in your drink because he’s got issues
[–]mikeysixpointsix17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I suspect he wasn’t even abusive. That he just stood his ground when she came at him sideways. She’s hamstering/justifying her choice to break up by saying he’s abusive but deep down she knows she’s lying to herself. Like the saying goes: a society gets the leader it deserves.
[–]WrongTime015 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s exactly what happened, I guarantee it. She just wants an excuse for doing stupid shit
[–]Maximum_Afternoon2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I suspected the same when "trauma bonding", which I've never heard of before, came up.
[–]TigPlaze4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Me neither, especially women. Any woman with at least a modicum of good looks will have a huge assortment of options, but many routinely ignore the guys who will treat them well and instead go for the bad boys, and I really mean bad boys such as criminals. It's her own damn fault if she keeps doing that.
[–]WrongTime011 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The moment a reality situation becomes cliche is the moment I lose any and all reasons to give a damn
[–]Xtreme18050 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
“you’re still wholeheartedly at fault when every single relationship backfires” most of the posts on this sub are people complaining about relationships they’ve had and how it was the other person’s fault, isn’t this slightly hypocritical?
[–]WrongTime010 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In a single relationship, it can go either way. The problem occurs when it’s consistent and people just so happen to find themselves in the same type of abusive relationship by the same type of people. This is doubly so if the person is aware they have a problem
[–]DangZagnut16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Strange, it’s almost like some women seem to enjoy deviant relationships.
Well good thing it’s all rape and abuse now.
As always. Zero responsibility. She can’t just come out and admit she likes weirdly roller coaster drama and emotional turmoil, that makes her leave a snail trail, she has to act like the victim.
You know there are actual fetishes for this, but she’s just too pussy to simply admit she likes it.
Makes the sex hotter.
[–]mikeysixpointsix3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
50 shades of regret.
[–]Grant14127 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
AKA an Alpha Widow, ready to be wifed up. She's diligently studying her dating strategy so that she can successfully mislead a man into believing he can entrust her with committed devotion withing a lifelong monogamous relationship.
Most every woman today has that "aching hole in their chest". Her next relationship isn't going to make it go away.
Also, note that you literally have to be a bad person to keep a woman attracted to you longterm. And she'll still get bored of you eventually.
[–]ronoda127 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lesson: Never be nice
[–]AncientMGTOWWISDOM0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Key to life!
[–]hrm08940 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm nice, just not to women.
[–]CyberSmith341 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I always wondered how much of the supposed "rape culture" is actually chicks addicted to bad boy tingles taking dumb risks.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm not surprised at all. Especially with abuse being something as simple as a man asking for equal effort in a relationship. Imagine all the attention she receives when she makes claims of abuse. She just can't get enough of it.
[–]consentio0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
IT'S A TRAP
[–]rejac2180 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well ...there it is right there. Do you need to see more?
[–]CaptainTarantula0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Reverse genders and you would have a basic simp.
This just shows young men how crazy chicks are.
Take note and take care.
[–]skeletonshorror0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Every girl in LA.
[–]RubenZ2170 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just another post at FemaleDatingStrategy. Nothing to see here.
[–]Smegma_Hitler_690 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Behold, the female mind.
If you dare suggest that women may enjoy violence, you're a terrible misogynistic pig, but women can still openly talk about their rape fantasies everywhere. Can't win arguments against liars.
[–]bobslei_p10 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Stockholm syndrome, as it is.
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