When you GYOW. Don't forget to live your live and really go your own way. It is not about being miserable about how you've been abused, mistreated, neglected, whatever. The point is going your own way. Defining your own goals, your own identity. I have no hatred of women in particular. It took me some time to realize, it was a fruitless endeavour persuing them and relationships really are for suckers. I think of the effort I put in, the money I spent, the time I wasted, the tears I shed. What was all that for? They wonder where the good men went and why some of us are bitter and shoot the shit here sometimes. Many of us don't just reach a point of going or own way before a lot of shit we've been through.

I am staring down what may be a terminal illness and while I do not regret eventually swearing off dating and relationships. I regret not fulling going my own way and really living before the realization of just how short this life is. I know the bitterness in your hearts gents, its in mine too. Go you own and way, but don't forget to live along the way.

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Valhalla

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If any other brothers are struggling I am willing to listen. Got nothing but time.