Where to start?

mgtowguynow · 2016-05-12T21:06:28+00:00

I want to learn how to do my own projects, follow my own ambitions instead of wasting my college years with girls and my life with women.

Disregard women acquire currency.

Your biology will always try and distract you so when you're under that spell just jack off.

grasshopa · 2016-05-12T21:19:42+00:00

Take ownership of your actions. Your post gives off the whole, 'things just happen to me, it's weird!' vibe. You need to realize that you are in charge of your consequences.

There's really nothing more than that, although I've noticed folks your age do tend to have a hard time really understanding the implications of self agency. Still; the best way to start understanding it is to identify your behaviors that have led to the consequences you are trying to avoid.

LetsGoAllTheWhey · 2016-05-12T21:05:23+00:00

Well you came to the right place.

murph55 · 2016-05-12T21:55:41+00:00

Don't let people discourage you..I to have stuff happen With no prompting on my part. Most people around me tried to tell me it was my own fault, that I'm in charge of my consequences. It always amazes me how others want to argue with me about my experiances. Any of this sound familiar? To those who think they have the answer to everyone's problems. You berating and telling people it's their own fault does nothing to improve their situation..unless you have info that will help..shut the hell up!!!!

stunningandbrave · 2016-05-13T02:41:42+00:00

Read "The Manipulated Man" by Esther Villar. Huuuuge game changer.

You'll never see women and female interaction the same way. The whole book is a huge red pill. I had to stop a few times just to digest what I was reading. Amazing book.

Underballbuttered · 2016-05-13T03:03:45+00:00

Idk why you talk to these females. What is there to talk about. Just fuck them or try or walk away. Who cares. They are a bore.

Five_Decades · 2016-05-13T03:09:16+00:00

This article describes what you are going through. The trouble isn't worth the benefits anymore.

http://captaincapitalism.blogspot.com/2008/10/yes-men-do-leave-market.html

The problem is that most people have their goals pre-programmed into them by society. Get a good job, get a wife, get kids, etc. When you realize that the wife and kids are not your goal, then the desire to 'get a good job' may go down too since you may be doing that to get the wife and support the kids.

Basically, it is just something you work your way through. You find your own goals.

This video may help a bit.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w3yIMsxAzF0

oldredder · 2016-05-13T05:18:29+00:00

Somehow you just gotta re-aim your life to end those random conversations early and go do your own thing instead of go off with her.

I ended that nonsense and have had 10x more control over my life ever since.

I'll never go back. Even when I'm very attracted to a girl I'm more than happy to say I think she's hot and we should sleep together but if I think she's angling for a boyfriend I'll straight up say I don't date or I'll find a reason to be somewhere else and end the conversation

murph55 · 2016-05-13T14:56:12+00:00

No..it's not a help at all..more frustrating than helping. I've lived my whole life with people such as yourself spouting such things. Never brought anything useful. So unless you have info that can assist in the moment...well..I said it last post! It's great that you acknowledge 'rare and exceptional circumstances'..but they're alot more prevalent than you acknowledge. How you dispatch a problem can have a huge effect on future occurrence..and that can extend to occurrences of a different nature. But none of this prevents problems from arising in the first place.

Brokemgtow · 2016-05-14T01:56:39+00:00

Think about it, a men's existence is mostly about mastering. As infants is very important to learn to suck things up, this is very important, this is were the apathetic abyss begins.

The realization of women's behavior is just another reality that you must master. That's what we do we're man

Title	Where to start?
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Date	May 12, 2016 9:02 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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