Why do many men cave in?

DangZagnut · 2019-01-11T18:55:20+00:00

Pussy access and having a pleasant home life. Women know if they make you miserable you’ll submit to their demands or work more to avoid them.

You deny a man any life relief at home and he’ll fold. What else does she do all day long? Nothing? Some bs non-work quota job?

Your home is your castle. Don’t install a dragon you have to battle every day.

NVCowboy · 2019-01-11T21:02:29+00:00

In my family I’ve seen the spectrum. My eldest brother tried the route of appeasement, always letting his wife have her way. My other brother was the polar opposite, wading into endless battles with his wife. I tended to be a mix of the two, not sweating the “small stuff” but having hard lines I would not cross.

We all ended up divorced on the wife’s instigation, and the laws rewarded them all handsomely. I don’t believe there is a “correct way” to deal with a woman, especially since physical force is removed from our arsenal.

It’s best not to play the game.

Iqbal40862715 · 2019-01-11T20:24:44+00:00

I used to be on of those deluded fools that thought if I cave she’ll shut the fuck up and be appeased.

Guys have lost all power to discipline bitches and we’ve been conditioned to think we are equals with these hoes.

It’s a war for your mind too. They play pussy terrorist and we try to negotiate with them.

Women like making us miserable and provoking us. This is why when I find out a guy beat up a woman I’m not sympathetic to the woman anymore.

For every one animal guy that did it for no reason I bet there are 20 that got brutally provoked and snapped

Gibits · 2019-01-11T20:14:18+00:00

I think every man has their own limits. It’s called picking your fights. Some men just lay down on every issue and let the women lead. So men let tribal things slide but stand firm when it comes to important matters like money, kids etc.

The fact is women are exhausting. They will wear you down until you concede to them. Especially if you live with them, there is no escape or respite until you cave. It’s easier when you have your own place.

It’s hard to stay independent and strong willed when it’s constantly pecked at.

Red_pilledman · 2019-01-11T18:54:14+00:00

Men have a biological jurisprudence that favors women.

Texian_Fusilier · 2019-01-11T19:37:59+00:00

All of it. Caving is the path of least resistance as well. Dont take that path, and they ruin you.

caem123 · 2019-01-12T03:25:51+00:00

The feminist corporate world was kicking my ass career-wise so I starting investing in real estate, against my wife's freakin' demands.

I bought a rental house, she threatened divorce if I buy another.

I bought a rental house, she threatened divorce if I buy another.... you get the picture.

That's my story of not caving in but it's a been a bitch of a path. Her version of my story is I buy stuff without telling her first. Fuck her and her veto power. Luckily my state lets me buy property without her signature.

[deleted] · 2019-01-12T03:52:33+00:00

My brother caves to his bitch...er....i mean wife because its easier than hearing her bitch. He said to me once "If I dont do it, she will bitch all night about it and I have to work in the morning".

underrated_kawasaki · 2019-01-11T22:11:59+00:00

Because most men are too stupid and stubborn to go fuck a hooker and instead choose to hand their balls on a silver platter so that they don’t have to “pay for sex” :)

Findyourpath89 · 2019-01-12T01:38:31+00:00

Because men have something innate in us that seeks women to give our lives meaning.

Very hard to break.

Only the strongest and most logical men can demonstrate true restraint and self motivation in all forms of life

Boston_Batman · 2019-01-12T08:35:46+00:00

Social conditioning (movies, porn, books and music), raging hormones, millions of years of reproduction.

hominid_mgtow · 2019-01-12T14:23:39+00:00

Having a wife is like living with a bully whom you can never smack.

BalancingVices · 2019-01-12T19:27:21+00:00

The reason why the husbands cave in, is simply because the position of married men in the western world == checkmate. They've lost (given up actually) the most basic tool at a man's disposal and that is to freely make a move.

Most of them have already signed away half their property, income and pension. If there are kids then the woman has another big lever. Women have the backing of the state to make it real.

Any married housewife who knows her position, has already won all the fights that follow. It's basically just torturing the POW from that point on.

Unless the husband is willing to go scorched earth (lose his wealth and/or break some laws), all his attempts to take back control are from a position off weakness and pure bluff. Works only if the wife is ignorant of her position and unwilling to call his bluff.

Compare, a MGTOW monk just walks away and isn't cornered easily. TRPs who don't cohabitate, can also retract any benefit they give to a woman, whenever they want or need to. Only then can you properly negotiate or hold frame.

The ability to simply walk away and take all the benefits you provided with you, is very effective, not just with women, but also at work and in other situations that involve other people. Never give that up.

Title	Why do many men cave in?
Author	horseshoemagnet
Upvotes	9
Comments	20
Date	January 11, 2019 6:52 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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