Why don't men organize?

Chatter_ · 2020-02-14T00:29:19+00:00

Who said you have to isolate yourself? I own a bar so I’m constantly interacting with people. I also have a group of 7 friends, some married, that I’ve known for over a decade. I still date frequently also but I wouldn’t marry, cohabitate, or support a woman due to there being no benefit for me. Others may feel different. If you want to go out or hang with people, male or female, go ahead. There are no set rules to going YOUR way.

softbeats · 2020-02-14T00:36:19+00:00

It is the way it is.

In today’s society if men gather together, women will see a target to infiltrate and destroy.

Men gathered here at r/MGTOW. Notice the quarantine.

Mamsplained · 2020-02-14T01:04:26+00:00

There's no real benefit for us to organize. It's not our job to gather together and help women fix their shit, we've done that far too long. It's easier and more fulfilling to watch from a distance with a bucket of popcorn as they cry "wHeRe aRe aLl tHe GoOd mEn?!"

Simply not worth the effort to fix them, they aren't worth an ounce of our energy and there's infinitely more better persuits to invest your time and energy into than yet again pandering to their bullshit.

badgerninjacow · 2020-02-14T00:38:50+00:00

Going your own way IS a very personal thing though. The clue is in the name: “Men going THEIR OWN way.”

Anyway, once you organize, you have to compromise for the group and that just sounds like being back on the plantation with different steps. Also, organizing means becoming an easy target.

ikhwan_arif · 2020-02-14T00:51:59+00:00

Going your own way doesn't necessarily mean being a hermit. If you want to socialize go ahead; make friends, contribute to your community and all that jazz. What MGTOW provides are tools to safeguard your dignity, your sovereignty and your freedom.

Phantom_Spark · 2020-02-14T01:09:15+00:00

MRA organized. They have conferences, and meet up to push for change. If you want to be social, they’re the ones to do it with.

TheUser421 · 2020-02-14T02:05:25+00:00

I thought about making a mobile app version or even forum like site for Mgtow. It would be great for discussion along with many other things like helping each other out, advice, optional hangouts, etc.

But it’s not a must.

_Gnas_ · 2020-02-14T01:35:45+00:00

It's Men Going Their Own Way, not Men Going On Their Own

Synth_Kobra · 2020-02-14T02:30:12+00:00

I agree with you. many men say its not our job to work towards a better world, but in life we choose what is our responsibility or not. You either feel the call or you don't. Those that don't have it easy. They can say fuck off. Those that do, however, is a different story altogether.

nathant9170 · 2020-02-14T02:43:13+00:00

Bro, there are different levels to mgtow. Chose your own, go your OWN way. Do you.

ClintonKilldepstein · 2020-02-14T02:57:30+00:00

/r/MensRights/ -> is that way. See how much vitriol is sent your way when you openly support MRA's.

cyber_goth_ · 2020-02-14T03:26:38+00:00

The costume parade grievance marches got no one anywhere.

ShowMeWarFace · 2020-02-14T05:06:45+00:00

It's hard for likeminded men to recognize each other. So many MGTOW understandably play the gray man in public, ghosting in plain sight.

I think a lot of it comes down to knowing they're vastly outnumbered by people who have very different values and who see the world in a very different way.

The general public uses the term incel to describe a broad range of people it does not understand, or care to. MGTOW gets labeled a hate group and conflated with the alt right. Men's groups are routinely pressured to admit female into once male spaces or decried as mysogynist.

If a community of like minded men grew to be too noticable, the public would react badly based on all of the above. MRAs will tell you about the death threats and public scorn they deal with regularly as it is.

All this makes some men feel like at least in the realm of the individual they have some control, some sense of order they can impose upon their circumstances and reality. Perhaps the peace this brings is preferable to the chaos and uncertainty that comes with public group interaction and advocacy.

sidel3 · 2020-02-14T08:00:34+00:00

Men have dominance instincts.

TooAwareToCare · 2020-02-14T12:05:45+00:00

You can have both.

Feel free to organise whatever you desire, I’ve heard guys have really good success doing this.

Lots of guys without initiative wanting the same thing to be honest.

LM1120 · 2020-02-14T15:44:55+00:00

Men don't organize because there is always one guy in the group who is a blowjob away from being a blue pill simp.

Women know this, so they prod such places until they find the simp, flirt with him, and turn him into a weapon against the very organization he helped build.

Notice that there's always those 'pick-me's and NAWALTS in circling those men's groups talking about how they're 'different'.

It started with gaming, now it's just impossible to dodge these bitches anywhere and just as impossible to convince theses low T, validation seeking, career momma's boys to have some goddamn self control.

GimmeSumChon-Chon · 2020-02-14T19:57:36+00:00

Of course, we are social creatures so this is normal

I think organizing a local mgtow group would be best done a little more disguised so that you aren’t labeled a nazi by the local leftist nutjobs

thats what they do to anyone who does what they don’t like , they start with the ism’s and ist’s...

Atton_Risk · 2020-02-17T15:45:58+00:00

Men are wired to murder each other, that is why the MRM is a broken shadow of its former self. The only real change that can happen is a mutual understanding among men.

Title	Why don't men organize?
Author	altworkstshirts
Upvotes	10
Comments	19
Date	February 14, 2020 12:24 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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