So I overheard a guy at work talking today. He's been single for many years and recently started dating. Apparently he was invited to watch a movie at her place after going on a couple date. He said he merely tried to snuggle with her, and she pulled away saying it's "too soon".
I didn't say anything, but wanted to tell him to ghost her. Seriously though, this wasn't even about sex, just some cuddling. What did she expect he was going to do?
Was this some sort of stupid shit test?
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She's recruiting a beta orbiter. Women know in a few seconds whether they are going to have sex with a man, and it will usually happen soon after - that night, the next date, etc. Anything longer is beta fishing. Your friend is in for some monetary fines if he stays.
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If he was not able to create any intimate tension after a few dates that is his problem. But inviting someone up to her place usually means yes.
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