Young guy here... looking for some general advice

JStheHammer · 2018-06-08T17:43:42+00:00

You are not at college to meet girls. You are there to bust your ass to secure your future.

ThePlague · 2018-06-08T17:55:18+00:00

If you fall in love, just remember that it is chemicals in your brain trying to trick you into breeding. Try to view it as dispassionately as you can, separating the feeling from your rational self. Approach it as a heroin addict looking to kick it. Enjoy the feeling, but don't make decisions based on it.

Have your fun, but never go bareback.

No pussy in the world is worth ruining your life, and they all will if given enough time and the chance.

Always have an exit plan.

drizztdourden420 · 2018-06-08T18:12:31+00:00

Concentrate on graduating and having a good career with good prospects that you can always fall back on. Don't get married. Depending on your level of attractiveness you may find that your Social Market Value peaks at around 35-40, so you may attract younger women for quite some time; leverage that. So don't get stuck focusing on one person while you're young, you can take advantage of your situation with women for another decade and a half. If anyone is pressuring you to marry them, then they don't have your best interests in mind.

Just live life by your own rules. What you have to remember is that society has been telling young women "you go girl!" for 60 decades or so and basically has been telling men how much they suck and how everything bad in society is because of men.

What this means is that women are thinking of themselves first because they "deserve" whatever, blah blah, - not to "settle" etc... Lost in all of this is that boys should be getting the same advice but are not. You need to put yourself first as well, because SHE sure as hell is for herself. Listen to your own voice and thoughts before anyone else. Your view of the world and your opinions matter most for you. Don't give those up, if you do, you give that power to someone else.

Be your own champion. I would advise against marriage because there is too much legal jeopardy; which is why I say that anyone demanding marriage does not have your better interests in mind. If they truly love you, they would not ask to marry you. If you want a family, then you have to compromise a little, but it doesn't mean you have to be married.

Enjoy this part of your life. Enrich it however you can through travel, learning, individual pursuits that strike your interests. This is the time to be a little bit selfish. Later in life the responsibilities come. Be responsible, save now for your retirement and don't let anybody get at that stash, but still, just be true to yourself.

Best of luck to you. "Live long and prosper!"

ChadThundercock7 · 2018-06-08T18:55:02+00:00

My best advice is being a little more selfish, this is your life and no one has control over it, do thing that favors you or you future, do thing that makes you feel good and always put "you" as a priority.

We are not a sect or a movement, we exist to tell you that there is other way, you don't need to be slave of society, you don't need to be afraid of woman, but you must understand what dangers are out there if you are not smart.

You got only one life, don't think with your penis, make best use of your time and love yourself.

I wish you a good life buddy, we are here for you if you are lost.

Mecha_Hobbit · 2018-06-08T17:45:19+00:00

Watch "The Red Pill" ( 2016 Documentary).

You Tube MGTOW videos before they are banned. Yes, banned.

kbradsha · 2018-06-08T18:13:10+00:00

Don't get married. Don't cohabitate long enough for it to be considered a common law marriage in your state. Keep detailed records. If you know an argument is coming, record it. Wear the damn condom. Don't take care of her kids or leave any evidence that you may have been a provider for her children.

cypresstalker · 2018-06-08T17:45:57+00:00

When presented with Pussy vs. Going to class (or killing some HW).. Always do the latter. Don't pay for movie tickets or dinners for women. The most effective weapon you have is ghost mode.. run into a crazy chick? GHOST!!

Always wrap it or you WILL get HPV. I can't stress this one enough.

boy_named_su · 2018-06-08T19:18:34+00:00

Don't take a job with a female boss

Don't rent an apartment from a female landlady or building manager

mgtow-zen · 2018-06-08T20:08:13+00:00

Do not listen to women. They will tell you what they would like the truth to be, in their own idealized way. But they cannot tell you the truth because they themselves don't seem to know it.

Women aren't "bad", and resenting them will hurt you in the long run, but the world will tell you love comes from a woman. Love does not come from women, or men. If you believe that it does, you will believe you need them.

So, the challenge is to teach that love never comes from women, this has to sink in to the deeper part of the mind. Love does not come from women, or men, or marriage or anything of this world. That is the advice I wish I knew when I was young.

WolfgangBreitweit · 2018-06-08T20:15:00+00:00

Care for yourself. Never get married. You can’t alpha the system. Be independent of the opinions and validation of women. Always keep in mind that you are a utility for them. No pun intended. It’s simply true. See all concerning women in this light. It will save you from emotional and financial harm. Sex is greatly overrated.

stoopididoit · 2018-06-08T20:43:17+00:00

I think the best advice you could take to heart in these times is CYA, cover your ass. Assume that being alone (except perhaps when you are being monitored on video surveillance) with any female is legally dangerous to you. Further assume that any female you interact with is ready and willing to play you for her own benefit.

If I were a young man today, I would have my phone ready to record audio (and video depending) at a moments notice at all times.

If you remember anything remember this; if it's your word against hers you've already lost. *edit a word

Ghustgan · 2018-06-08T22:07:12+00:00

Your studies and your achievements at school will stay with you all the way to the grave. Thots won't. Just be careful and don't put any eggs into any baskets.

bdf39 · 2018-06-09T01:19:25+00:00

I graduated a few years ago with Electrical engineering. Watch out for girls at your school your senior year looking for a LTR senior year or leading up to right when college ends and after. Crafty ones partied hard for 3+ years only to realize work is not where its at and try to snag the engineer salary before you even finish school. Girls didn’t touch freshman/sophomore engineers at all but suddenly gain interest around graduation. Makes you think.

bluepiller555 · 2018-06-09T10:43:07+00:00

My advice is to keep coming here, let what's going on here sink in. It's great that your eyes are truly opened now. I'm 48 and wasted many painful, self-loathing years of my life in the Matrix, thinking i was getting rejected and jerked around because i wasn't good enough, burning myself out idolizing women. I'd say never commit, NEVER marry. But since you're in your 20s, have sex with everything that moves. Live a young life of endless, meaningless hookup sex but ALWAYS use protection and don't ruin your life by getting some bitch pregnant. The ability to partake of that kind of plentiful sex cornucopia will end at abt age 32 or so, so get in your fuckin' now. That's about all i can advise. All of what's said here about women and how they really are is true. Romantic relationships are a fallacy, and buying into that BS can carry a life-ruining price.

TsunYanKudere · 2018-06-09T01:42:40+00:00

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antishock8 · 2018-06-08T23:42:53+00:00

Read and listen to everthing on the right side of this page.

mikedmann · 2018-06-08T20:22:59+00:00

Sounds like you are already gonna knock up the first date you get.

Title	Young guy here... looking for some general advice
Author	TsunYanKudere
Upvotes	20
Comments	33
Date	June 8, 2018 5:37 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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