Your thoughts about this?

30caliberclipazine · 2019-05-30T06:46:32+00:00

I mean... it’s interesting that the female is on the shit end of the deal for once

DWShimoda · 2019-05-30T06:57:47+00:00

I think she expected to win on court. Even if they married she's the typical woman that doesn't think before making decisions (3 kids and she didn't care of her previous marriage to make it last, than she monkey branched)

DWShimoda · 2019-05-30T07:42:30+00:00

I think it's interesting (and somewhat surprising) how the highest karma comments are telling her, YES, she is "the asshole" here; and moreover they seem to largely agree that the kids' anger is entirely understandable.

After all, she "asked them" -- they told her "No" they did not want to move -- then she ignored their stated wishes, said she was moving anyway; which was bad enough... but of course she didn't STOP there, instead she went to court (dragging the kids AND her ex through the equivalent of a second "custody battle"), CONFIDENT that as a WOMAN and the "MOTHER" she would get HER way.

I also note that the whole line of "we'd foot the bill to him for every trip to him on holidays, breaks, summers, etc." was obviously a complete LIE. If she and her new hubby could truly have afforded that, then obviously she should NOW be able to afford for HER to fly back to California to see her kids... which she apparently ISN'T able to do.

DangZagnut · 2019-05-30T06:50:35+00:00

I have no real comment on it, divorce hurts everyone.

action_turtle · 2019-05-30T07:39:42+00:00

Fair enough. Once kids hit around 12-16 years old they really should have what they want to do taken into consideration. 50/50 split living with each parent for years gave them a real understanding of life with dad. Which is what they prefer. No surprise the judge went in this direction. Would of been a travesty if it went the other way!

fwoomer · 2019-05-30T08:44:05+00:00

She’s absolutely the asshole.

She knew this guy was in the military and would eventually be reassigned, but dated him anyway.

She knew it, but married him anyway because she was “head over heels in love.” (I question whether women are even capable of that emotion, but that’s another thread entirely)

Then he gets reassigned and she tries to uproot her children to fit her whole selfish, new life, which she engaged in with no though to how her any of it would affect her children.

And that’s not even covering what she tried to do to the father.

There is absolutely no excuse for what she did. None. Full stop.

She’s not only the asshole, but she’s a horrible person and a pathetic excuse for a mother. I hope her current husband sees what she did to her kids, wises up, and leaves her before she ruins his life. And I hope for their sakes that her kids never speak to her again and that she eventually dies alone and unloved like the giant piece of trash she is.

Shimakaze4 · 2019-05-30T10:17:28+00:00

Teenagers don't like it when you fuck up their daily lives and the only real weapon they have, is the power to ignore you. They can't yell and scream at you, they can't move out and they can't throw a punch, but nothing, no even the law can compel them to talk to you. I learned this lesson too.

TeamTeddy0 · 2019-05-30T08:08:43+00:00

Of course she has expensive Apple products.

Title	Your thoughts about this?
Author	observant_one
Upvotes	10
Comments	10
Date	May 30, 2019 6:44 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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