I'm having a moment of clarity this evening, and I'll keep this short and sweet:

If you find her attractive, so do 99% of the men around you. If you think she only has eyes for you:

Shes fucking at least 2 people you know directly, and many more indirectly.

You are not special in her eyes, only another prospect.

You are disposable at a moment's notice.

Value yourselves. GYOW