Abuse & MGTOW

Chinny_YT · 2021-03-26T05:08:25+00:00

2 and 3. I can see the manipulation tactics she uses, and the fact when I expose this to her, she immediately gets angry at me. Sometimes she makes the same argument that I do, yet it only works for her because... I don't know. Second of all my dad is the typical guy whos works 9-5 to support the family by himself. I'm trying to help don;t worry, but my mum would constantly complain about cleaning the house and such when she doesn't have to work when that's the ONLY thing she needs to do.

yamahantx700 · 2021-03-26T05:20:27+00:00

Parents divorced at 3 years old, 50/50 custody.

So, 2 homes, and 2 sets of rules. 2 languages as well(english and french).

My dad is my role model. When I grow up, I hope to be half the man he is. He ate so many shit sandwiches and never complained. Fucking balls of steel!

The only people who fucked me over were my sister and ex-girlfriends. Everyone else has respected me for who I am.

frenchlouve · 2021-03-26T14:00:20+00:00

2 and 3 as well. My mom is a narcissistic mother. Criticized me ALL THE TIME throughout my life. Criticized me for one thing, then when I did the opposite, criticized me for that too. Hypocrisy was her biggest virtue. She weighs twice as much as me yet criticizes my weight. She eats far more unhealthy food yet calls my food junk. Can't keep a job, yet criticized me when I quit my jobs. Also, I saw her take the woman's side in an argument/disagreement with a man. She'd get mad at a man for one thing, but when a woman did the same, not a peep from her.

I moved in my sister in 2019 entirely to help her out financially, knowing that I would lose out financially and wouldn't be able to pay my health insurance bill. My sister was a complete and total bitch that even my narc mother said was entirely wrong.

So I learned about female nature from those two. You cannot make a woman happy. Period. It's better for a man to try to become a millionaire by working into fast food than ruin his life trying to make women happy.

TRPonlySubsBanTRPppl · 2021-03-26T05:50:33+00:00

I am an SOB, my father was a toxic male, and yeah I still have issues. No physical abuse though. At least, not to me directly. The oldest in my family was always tortured as an example for the rest of us.

Gaiinahat · 2021-03-27T01:41:55+00:00

Just 1. My father was abusive, an alcoholic, drug addict, and habitual cheater (I witnessed all of it myself). Parents divorced when I was 10. Raised by my single mom. Never really had a father figure in my life, except for a few years in my teens. Grew up beta as fuck. Had several relationships blow up because of it. Found the red pill a couple years ago. Looking back, I'm glad all those relationships blew up. I don't really blame my mother though. She did the best she could given the circumstances. Sure did fuck me up though.

ArishOrhan · 2021-03-27T15:54:13+00:00

I have a perfect relationship with my mother, she's my best friend and all in all a great person. I also have two sisters who I love dearly, all of them are truly a blessing and I, being the youngest, have always been spoiled and treated great.

Despite all of this, I'm still mgtow to the core, because there's a lot of shitty people in this world and I DO BELIEVE THE GAME IS RIGGED. Women are not evil, they have a different nature than us, that's it. There is evil women (with women nature) and evil men (with their own nature). Now as far as women's nature, I am a big fan of Patrice O'neil and his stance on it.

yamahantx700 · 2021-03-26T05:28:14+00:00

| Men can't do it all.

Actually, that's the point. We do it all, except one thing. We don't gestate. In other words, women make babies and men make families.

Consider this. Women typically fill culinary schools. Yet men are over 98% of Michelin starred chefs. Men compete for things. Which is why we dominate the top chef field. Women compete for men. Unless you can better explain to me why the best cooks are men.

2021-03-26T08:43:59+00:00

2 and 3. I remember as a young child my mother bringing me to her various older men’s houses that were friends of hers She would have me play/wait outside. Afterwards she had money to buy things with. While my father worked two jobs to provide for the family. They divorced eventually. Her Affairs became too much for him

She is an angry bitter money focused old woman.   My father is a generous happy man enjoying a simple lifestyle

mistralol · 2021-03-26T09:26:32+00:00

Yes from age 13-14 or so.
Yes and grandmother. Constant emtional blackmale. Anything anyone ever did in the house (me / sister) was always done wrong as well. Very highly strung and highly critical women.
Yes the reletionship is basically a mess. I avoid here at all times.

My sister however also saw it for what it was and also avoids her. I get on really well with mine actually. Cause we used to stick together growing up.

Celtero · 2021-03-26T22:14:02+00:00

2, and not really 3 because I cut her out of my life 2 years ago.

ViscountVixen · 2021-03-26T22:33:00+00:00

My parents were married up to my mother's death, and while my mother was at times emotionally/verbally abusive, it was not as bad as how my father treated me. I don't have any issues with her now, things being as they are.

WillFred213 · 2021-03-27T00:31:18+00:00

Just had to sign up with a new account because I wanted to respond to this... But definitely 1 and 2. #3 was also true up until I was in my 30's and fortunately is no longer true.

I am in my late 40's now and have come a long way from a single mother that took out her anger at my father (who had left when I was 10) on me. I remember going to some friend's house after I was on my own and seeing how my friend and his wife treated their young son... It made me cry with sadness and a bit jealous over how I was watching normal parenting.

If you take anything away from my post, Don't let the abuse from your childhood or the misandry in your mother and sister reverberate into you such that you pass on misogyny to the women around you. You will be alone and miss out on wonderful relationships if you take that path.

It took me years of dating and being alone to finally meet my wonderful wife in my late 30's. All that time, despite the rejection and downright bad behavior of OLD, I kept focused on the fact that there are kind, caring, and good women. The kind of women who shared their lunchbox snacks with you in 3rd grade... the kind of women who don't introduce sexuality into the early stages as a means of making you jealous or insecure..

I had one good dating experience in OLD that didn't work out due to distance... but mostly, that stuff just made me worse off from the interaction with wounded defensive women. The best women I met (offline) were proactive about getting to know me, which didn't mean they were desperate. It meant they were serious about finding what they wanted. Sometimes it didn't turn into anything, but I still admired them a lot. If a woman asks you if you want to go hike or go to the museum, you say yes and if you enjoy her company, ask her out again.

Anyways, TLDR; just don't let the women in your family of origin keep you from finding a woman that makes your life richer. If you live with these family members, or are dependent on them... find a way to get out and get far away.

Title	Abuse & MGTOW
Author	PeaceBeUponUs2020
Upvotes	5
Comments	24
Date	March 26, 2021 5:04 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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