Advice to men: Slut-shaming is wrong.

throwaway152038 · 2019-02-13T11:39:42+00:00

I don't shame them. Who cares lol, I don't mind them. Let them be.

randomroxks · 2019-02-13T12:59:57+00:00

I do slut shame my ex. Especially , after she was busted by my older kid. She was in doggy style , getting railed

2019-02-13T16:51:10+00:00

But women will happily shame men as incels. Slut shaming is just a tactic to deal with hypergamy. It used to be quite powerful for a woman to avoid cheating due to the stigma.

It's only useless now because the world are encouraging them to be open about being a slut.

Also like you say women are the main source of slut shaming. To character assassinate. My ex did this to an attractive woman giving me the eye.

Implausible-asset · 2019-02-13T16:00:56+00:00

Dude nobody cares here if they are sluts or not. This post would have more resonance on mgtow1.

Floofyboy · 2019-02-13T14:03:36+00:00

I used to think slut shaming is retarded, because its kinda the reasons girls play hard to get. But sometimes i start to think our ancestor started slut shaming for a reason. I bet back in caveman days, they were all riding Chad's cock in turns, and 80% of men never got any pussy. That's when they created marriage and slut shaming.

Roastie_haiku_bot · 2019-02-13T16:22:08+00:00

Slut-shaming worked very efficiently for thousands of years. Thanks, hippies!

J_Milton_Jr · 2019-02-13T11:48:48+00:00

To shame somebody on account of characteristics / behavior that has no influence on one's own life ( and does not harm anyone physically ) is generally strange and casts a bad picture on oneself.

People who need to evaluate other people, simply have too little to do with themselves.

Freedom of expression, of course, means you can shame women because of their behavior, but that also means that this judgmental behavior can have negative consequences for you.

Nobody likes people who feel morally superior and brag about it.

rationalthought314 · 2019-02-13T17:29:23+00:00

I love sluts. I like strong women that know if they want to fuck, and then do. Sometimes I'm the recipient.

Other then that it affects 0% of my life.

2019-02-13T22:47:10+00:00

Women shame women who give sex away too easy.

I like women who give it up easy.

Look, I'm an average guy but I have had ONS, sex on a second date. Etc.

If women were working under 1950 rules , I'd be a virgin.

No , sluts are valued, just not marriage material.

GFitness97 · 2019-02-13T17:00:07+00:00

I actually thought you were kidding here for a second. Just go your own way and stop worrying about women. Recognize a slut when you see one, and for your own health and to prevent a potential STD, just walk away from the situation.

AuthoriaPendragon · 2019-02-14T00:37:48+00:00

Shaming them is how you get them in line or used to anyway now they all know they are and own it. And I say let them. It only serves to make them less desirable to quality men anyway.

rationalthought314 · 2019-02-14T16:42:27+00:00

If you're after casual P&D why would you slut shame? My issue is the ones who "settle for" after their ride expecting a beta provider to look after them and most likely their bastard brood as well. These women hate MGTOW and the like because it deprives them of potential Captain Save-a-Hoe down the line.

As for women slut-shaming, it's because they are using sex as a bargaining chip and if a slut comes along giving it up easily, it takes away from their bargaining power. They want the men around them starving and willing to jump through hoops but if a guy is well fed, he's not going to put up with that shit. They know this therefore they resort to slut-shaming of those girls who ruined it for them.

I would argue when men slut shame, it's different. It's typically against a girl who pretends to be holier-than-thou and makes other guys work for it but drops her pants when the tingles hit her with a certain guy. In this case, it's more a matter of hypocrisy than morality.

antifeminist3 · 2019-02-15T02:49:48+00:00

It was a women slut-shaming her in the article. Women do most slut-shaming, but they minimized the fact that it was a woman perpetrator. If it were a man, it would have been emphasized.

New Study Proves That Men Don’t Slut Shame, Rich Women Do

mentalidade_logica · 2019-02-16T06:35:45+00:00

I disagree!

Never be afraid to call a spade a spade.

Mother is Mother and will always remain so. Sisters are sisters.

Wife you say? How is it possible for one to be married and a be a MGTOW at the same time? Just wondering. I can see dating as a MGTOW but a wife, no she wont allow it.

Anyway, as others already said it here, who cares!

Tsukikoselenia · 2019-02-17T13:28:21+00:00

Slut-shaming by itself is stupid and there is next to no reason for someone to care about it. The real problem, that is legitimate to complain about, happens when slutiness gets weaponized.

Ultimately, it's the same problem as everything else. people shouldn't be forced to deal with it if it bothers them that much, and if you decide to do something there are consequences. If you go outside half-naked, expect people to react to you as if you were half-naked. It's not exactly the same deal but I knew some women that dyed their hair in every color of the rainbow, and then complained because "people looked at them in a weird way". Well, no shit Sherlock, you're putting yourself in the spotlight; so don't complain if people can see you afterward. It's like the ones at work with a cleavage showing absolutely everything that then complain if you look at them more than two seconds. Ridiculous.

My hair are really long and therefore I attract a lot of random people staring at me, but I know it's because of one of my CHOICES so as long as it doesn't interfere with my life in a way like stopping me from getting a job in an illegitimate way, I will not complain about it happening, even if it can get annoying. I am the one that decided to do this despite the fact that it is unusual, and will therefore surprise people, so I deal with the consequences, both positives and negatives.

If you decide to put 90% of your body on full display for attention, expect people to deal with it in the way they want. A lot of them might feel uncomfortable because of this and will react as such, or will react aggressively. This is normal. You are basically forcing a sexual display on them, which isn't something ayone wants. A man don't walk outside with his dong on display for the same reason. Someone hitting you for that would be wrong. But as long as it isn't about discrimination, asking the whole society to change in the way you want it is just selfish.

And then there's the problem of children. I know quite a lot of people who don't want their children to see naked women everywhere for no reason, so they are legitimately angry at things like femen. Children don't need to be exposed to this kind of things and to overly sexual looks/behaviour that early, and it can interfere with the upbringig one might want to give them.

Be a fucking slut as much as you want to, but just don't impose it on others. That's about it. I personally don't give a damn, but people not wanting you to impose your slutiness in THEIR space or in their children's one is very understandable. You chose to behave in a certain way, and decided to dress in an overtly sexual way/display overtly sexual behaviour, well, be ready to deal with the consequences. You're forcing it on them just as much as others would like to force you not to do it after all.

MGTOWigor150 · 2019-02-20T16:23:43+00:00

we mgtows dont have wives

Title	Advice to men: Slut-shaming is wrong.
Author	DonMelbourne
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Date	February 13, 2019 11:00 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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