Asking for advice

Jake4523 · 2020-09-15T18:08:34+00:00

I think the reason some dudes get depressed is honestly because they long for something that they actually never had while growing up. Off topic but it is just a thought and opinion.

How I have come to deal with my depression is i accept it for what it is, understand that it will pass and try and move forward with myself. It really isn't easy, if it really gets me down I get on my motorcycle and go out for 4 hours or 5 and just ride wherever, while thinking about the problems. Typically by the time I'm back it has left my mind or I have figured out a solution to it. If you can't ride a bike, go too the gym, do a mixed martial arts class (another thing I'm doing, helps a freaking TON).

deepspace7 · 2020-09-15T21:15:56+00:00

The grass is not greener on the other side. Maybe you need to experience dating or having sex to see that it’s not all that important in the big picture. Once you got that out of the way, you can truly go your own way with zero regrets on having missed out on anything. If you need to visit a professional then so be it. Virginity is not such a big deal for guys. Society just makes it feel that way. Men get shamed for not being able to do something that animals like rats do. How is sex an accomplishment?

30203forever · 2020-09-15T17:41:21+00:00

My plan is actually to find a stable job after I finish school, making money and getting laid through call girls (prostitution is legal here in Germany) and to go on trips to Asia and Latin America every now and then.

I like your plan because it doesn't include the "regular" woman which are the most expensive option of all and especially in the long run (whether it's retail or dating, leasing with an option to buy or girlfriends or the most expensive of them all, marriage). And the most dangerous also (#MeToo). As far as still being a virgin at 20, the majority of men in my country of birth were virgins at that age because we had to go through the mandatory military conscription at 18 so it's no big deal at all. Sex is the most overrated thing ever, methinks..

2020-09-16T15:49:07+00:00

Work on your body, mind and spirit.

Ignore women, acquire personal financial freedom.

Get a fleshlight to quell the urge of risking the above over an orgasm.

Do not marry.

Do not cohabitate.

Lonely? Get a dog.

TheApricotCavalier · 2020-09-16T21:01:01+00:00

It will take another 1-2 years until I can afford doing that shit regularly though and I will probably stay a virgin till then.

Are you saying that over the next 2 years you cant put together 300$? Just don't get addictd to a lifestyle that you cant afford

josper11 · 2020-09-18T09:29:38+00:00

I like your plan.

I think you are still very young and you should try to approach women in the safest way possible, talk to them, listen to them, observe them, learn first hand how they behave, and not just stick to what is exposed in these forums. They are half the population and they will be your bosses, your employees, your co-workers. Learning to deal with the presence of women around you is necessary, and will even improve your experience with the prostitutes you will visit.

DonMelbourne · 2020-09-16T01:23:19+00:00

I'm active in the incel community

I have to say, that sounds a little like an oxymoron. I'll go away now.

Title	Asking for advice
Author	EthnicTrueCel_
Upvotes	1
Comments	12
Date	September 15, 2020 5:12 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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