Deciding divorce.

daniellederek · 2020-10-19T00:10:38+00:00

It's old but the how to divorce your wife book is still some ok advice.

Learn the actual laws where you live. Make sure you cannot be found guilty of abandonment.

Get any assets you can get ahold of and convert to cash and hide it.

Develop a depression and a gambling habbit, seek counseling,

If not on low work for covid, drop back to part time. Get your 2020 on paper income as low as possible.

Find the sleazyesy crookedest lawyer you can afford.

Do not arouse suspicion but if at all possible have a male friend rent a storage locker for you and slowly move store anything you want to keep there. again. Lie and say it was sold to buy lottery tickets if she notices.

Theres no rush. Get your ducks lined up before dropping the hammer.

a_quiet_accountant · 2020-10-18T23:19:38+00:00

ask a lawyer. maybe you can gift your savings and stocks to your parents and if you wait a certain period of time she won't be entitled to them anymore. i don't know, lawyer up, and make sure your lawyer isn't a feminist.

victor_knight · 2020-10-19T00:56:23+00:00

The first thing you need to understand is that divorce is yet another artery of wealth transfer from men to women. It's a form of female empowerment, i.e. giving them free money.

Carl Sagan, the late and renowned scientist, in his final 1997 book, 'Billions and Billions' had this to say about overpopulation (which is why these things are happening).

"Our job is to bring about a worldwide demographic transition and flatten out that exponential curve—by eliminating grinding poverty, making safe and effective birth control methods widely available, and extending real political power (executive, legislative, judicial, military, and in institutions influencing public opinion) to women. If we fail to bring about a worldwide demographic transition... some other process, less under our control, will do it for us."

Female empowerment is key to slowing population growth because wherever women are empowered, the birth rate falls (this happens everywhere women are empowered, with no exceptions). Scientists know this. This is what is really going on. Scientists have been working with governments and powerful, influential people for decades to ensure this "demographic transition" occurs. The overpopulation issue has even been rebranded as "climate change" so it doesn't seem racist (since over 90% of the world's population is not White).

As for your divorce, it's probably gonna hurt one way or another but most guys get through it alive. Usually poorer (and sicker) so they are less likely to be able to produce more kids, but alive nonetheless.

dogwoodcat · 2020-10-19T00:53:27+00:00

Savings: withdraw over time and hide the cash. Don't open a new bank account or use a safety deposit box, they are traceable by national identifying numbers (each country's is called something different but operate similarly).

Small, sealed, plastic bags are easy to hide and protect the money from the elements. Don't let her see you hide the money, and try to pick areas of the house she doesn't go into very often (garage, parents' bedroom, etc.). Old paint cans, jar-within-a-jar setups (outer jar screws/nails, inner jar money), even some old "mysterious" package in a freezer work well. If you're remotely handy, it's not very difficult to cut a small hole in a wall and install a fake blank cover plate. Spread out your stashes, and don't forget to say "Dad has some weird ideas about banks" if she stumbles across one.

pushit2dalimit · 2020-10-18T23:10:36+00:00

I don't have much just some savings, stocks, and 401k. Living with parents.

ProfessorChuckFinley · 2020-10-19T00:21:23+00:00

The longer you stay, the more shes gonna get.

Start talking to lawyers ASAP.

MediumConcern2 · 2020-10-18T23:32:32+00:00

401 K is worthless. Never fucking trust those lawyers.

Fezig · 2020-10-18T23:47:16+00:00

How long married?
Kids?
Does she work?
Do you own your house?

CropCircle77 · 2020-10-19T00:13:30+00:00

Mental Games, no support, I can relate.

Get out.

Eoasap · 2020-10-19T01:14:44+00:00

a lot of states are community property states. Split everything 50/50

thefudmaster · 2020-10-19T01:38:12+00:00

OP, you can do anything you want with your 401K before filing for divorce. However, be very careful of doing anything that a judge will view as unreasonable.

How long have you been married and are there kids involved? If you have no kids, the divorce should be very simple and assets/property will be split 50-50. If you are in a long-term marriage, you will likely be paying alimony for sometime. Hopefully this is not the case.

Google “real world divorce e-book”. It is an excellent resource and will break down the state you live in if you are in the United States.

Start consulting with a bunch of divorce attorneys in your area behind your wife’s back. Do not give her any indication of what you are going to do. She will not be able to utilize any of the attorneys you have consulted with, as that would be a conflict of interest. Best of luck and keep us in the loop.

Title	Deciding divorce.
Author	pushit2dalimit
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Date	October 18, 2020 10:55 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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