Female validation. Need refill.

DangZagnut · 2020-08-23T07:22:48+00:00

Any MGTOW that never craves or needs sex or validation is either gay or Stardusk.

I resemble that remark.

I have never seen women as validating because of having sex, as I've never seen sex as anything that amazing.

Also, I prefer masturbation to sex.

RedMeatTrinket · 2020-08-23T07:40:46+00:00

Sounds like you are doing boyfriend chores for her but she is not going girlfriend chores for you. What does that make you? Does this sound like an equal relationship to you? Validation from friends shouldn't cost you anything. Guys give it to friends for free. Next time you are asked to do an errand for her, ask her what's in it for you?

King_Yautja · 2020-08-23T08:06:00+00:00

Exactly what validation are you getting from this? Validation as an errand boy? That's less than worthless.

pewdsxtseries · 2020-08-23T08:57:05+00:00

No, if a mgtow is not craving for sex or female validation then he is either masturbating or owns a sexdoll or has good self control. Or maybe, his life has turned upside down due to prior relationships. Sex is not essential like breathing. And don't ask for advice if you don't want criticism but then you try to insult them back.

SynthWeaver · 2020-08-23T13:13:29+00:00

Just enjoy playing the game man. And what do you mean with errands? I never have to do errands at my friends place.

Solo_and_Simple · 2020-08-23T13:34:02+00:00

How does it make you feel, to interact with her? I know you like the validation and attention -- no harm in that, we're wired to like it. Not shaming you at all for that.

But beyond that, how do you feel about yourself, while you're interacting with her, and afterwards? Does it diminish your self-respect? Do you feel any sense of being weak or wimpy? Do you have any feeling of being used or manipulated? If you feel any of that, that is a bad sign.

If you do feel any of that, then the next step is to figure out whether it's worth the trade-off. Is the mood or ego boost you get from female validation worth the downside?

Jake4523 · 2020-08-23T17:39:39+00:00

I'm not gay and I hardly crave or desire sex, the fuck is the point to this?

casra888 · 2020-08-24T13:15:58+00:00

Just say, "Nope. Just here to play the game. Nothing more. Ask your boyfriend to do it for you."

antifeminist3 · 2020-08-24T22:35:59+00:00

If you just want to play The last of Us 2, say so. If she wants you to run an errand, turning it into a transaction, this implies she feels that she is doing you a favor by playing with you.

If you are unable to say no to this transaction, then this shows you feel the need to enter into this situation even though it is a 'transaction'. If this is the case, you need to decide if you are willing to continue this...

TheApricotCavalier · 2020-08-23T16:09:50+00:00

with some validation right now.

Why do you need validation? What is it you have doubts about? You can use a quick drug & those feelings of doubt will go away, but the problem will remain.

Metalcrazyx · 2020-08-24T02:42:17+00:00

Nothing wrong with being gay

MeiMei91 · 2020-08-23T16:27:11+00:00

Lmao all of you are incapable of having friends, life must be lonely for you

Title	Female validation. Need refill.
Author	maltacross
Upvotes	1
Comments	31
Date	August 23, 2020 7:20 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW2/comments/iez00h/female_validation_need_refill/
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