This is the third time this has happened, different lady same stuff.

I meet average-looking woman in early twenties on an invigilation side job. We talked then, the decision to exchange numbers is made. We talk for a week through text, I tell her about interesting thing i.e. solar flares. I then ask if she'd like to go out to lunch with me, I get a yes, but on the day (yesterday) this "lunch" was to happen I get ghosted both on text and otherwise.

What in the 9 circles of fuck happened? Should I have ignored her and avoided being haunted by this? Why do I care so much about this? Did I move too fast? Is it because I'm not jacked yet?

Last year basically the same thing, her "phone broke" after us talking for over two months and she never texted back.

Year before last, know her for 4 months "something came up" then I get ghosted, then another guy talked to her for 2 months and bam she is now his gf.